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Hello mam ,
My question is quite weird , but i really hope u answer it .
I was in a relationship with a girl for 4 yrs , in these 4 yrs we never had sex , but due ti certain circumstances she got married to someone else ,now i am 25yrs old , n d gal is 22 …..now the main question…..during those 4yrs even though i was in a relationship with my galfrend , i got attracted to her mother who by the way is 41 now , in those 4 years i had wild sex with my gal frends mom , even though it started as just sex drive , but now we both are emotionally attached to each other , i talk to her daily for atleast an hour , one day feel that this not gonna lead anywhere & the other day i feel that just talking to her an hour makes me so happy the whole day……..again its not about sex anymore ….it more than sex ……. her husband knows about this …. he keeps her at home but maintains distance from her ….herr husband also had huge role to play in her falling in bed with me ….i hope u understand …unsatisfied , unloved…………now shouldi continue my relationship with her or should i move on hoping i can find much greener pastures ….now she has told me that she would accompany me in phone as well as in bed till i find a gal frend or wife and settle down……..but i just want to spend the rest of watever is left for her n me…just with her,,,,,,now wat should i do….go with my heart (to be with her) ….or just find new pastures.
THANK U SO MUCH FOR U REPLY….IN ADVANCE
Hi anjali, i love this site very much. my question is that I have gf & we love each other. I want her cleaned pussy but she is not sure how to clean it easily. please tell me how she can clean her pussy completely?
hi aunty,i think you are doing great job.i do have a problem.i hope you would guide me.i have 2 problems.first one is that i love reading incest stories.any women whom i know,i imagine her to be my mom,and then i create sexual fantacies about her.i imagine that she is my mom and i m fucking her.i imagine that i have made her my sex slave or my wife.while thinking like that i jerk off.though my real mom dont replace those womens.my second problem is that i m panty and bra lover.in that case i dont spare even my mom.i love to play with her used panties and bra which are kept in the bathroom.i love to smell them,lick them and even wear them.not every time but sometimes while doing so,i start thinking dirty about my mom.though i feel guilty about that later.so maam pls guide me.i want to quit thesehabit
hi anjali aunty.i think you are doing a great job by solving ours problem.i hope you would solve my problem.i have a strange problem.i live with my mom who is 44 years of age.my father works abroad.i m sexually attracted towards my mom.i jack off while thinking about her.i have few reasons why i and how i started think about her like that.one year back my father went abroad.after my fathergone abroad i noticed some of the great change in her.once i saw her reading a magzine which was entirely devoted on lesbian issues.once isaw her watching hindi movie FIRE.this year on the day of holi,she was playing colours with one of my cousin brother.he was drunked.so he put his hand inside her blouse and started playing with her boobs.i saw her eyes closed and i felt she was enjoying that.even her behaviour with me has also changed.once i was going to the market,she told me to get a pack of sanitary napkins for her.once both of of us had gone for shopping,she told me that i have to buy few panties and bra.she told me in hindi that,mujhe kuch panties aur bra leni hai,kyunki meri panty me kafi ched ho gayi hai.i still dont know why she told me something like that.several times i have heard her talking dirty with our maid.all these reasons have contributed in my thinking.so please help me out.i know this is absolutely absurd feelings.
hi ma’am you are doing great job !! hats off 2 u!!
my prob is i’m 24 years old me doing masturbating past 6 years
now i feel i lost my nerve i’m look like very old as 30. Is this because of masturbating? now i’m addicted to masturbate.
please help me out how to get rid off dis prob?
another thing is my balls!
my balls are in different shape from one another does it makes any problem?(one is small and another one is in normal size)
help me to stop masturbating i’m dying here !!!
please mail your reply
thanks in advance
Hi anjali aunty,
I have a weird question that most guys would not even ask you. As everyone knows anal sex without protection is foolish. Both the girl and guy will get some minor infection to say the least.
My gf, her sister and i, have been at it since 7 years now have an excellent sex life. i mean she is everything a guy could want, keeping in mind that I have her sister at my disposal. Three of us have been indulging in anal successfully since about a year now, with protection.
Surprisingly, my gf now wants to “take things 2 the next level” and have anal without condoms. I dont mind it but i am afraid of either of us contracting any kind of complications. We are exclusive sexual partners in between the three of us.
My gf’s sister is not into anal and all and i am not looking to force it onto her in any case. My main question is can i indulge in anal sex with my babe if we clean her insides very well including going to the extent of giving her an enema?? she really loves getting an enema every week.
Please do let me know at the earliest cos shes curtailing the amount of sex being rendered out to me.
With lots of Love, Lust, Kisses and the desire to lick u to an Orgasm;
Dhruv
Hi Anjali,
I have a problem and i need your suggestion. I am 27 unmarried and never had sex, there problem is that i have a penis brdige. Should i get it removed before getting married?
Would it affect my sex life after marriage?
hi anjali i got question i got married last year me and my wife trying to have a baby for the last 6 months but its not working for us we tried every thing i even took her to doctor but nuffing is happening every time we make love my spurm comes out of her i tired to keep her leg in air after having sex but nuffing is working can u please help me with this bcz we really want baby
Hi anjali, I am 36 years guy. Recently I am suffering from BP and sugar also with the sway-back, even they are in control I am worried with having sex with my wife to whom I have married 3 years before and she is 28 yrs old.my questionis is there any problem if I had sex with my wife regularly, if it is, how often I can have. We both need more sex, but I am worried with my health problem.is there any special postures for having sex for this kind of problem.seeking the earliest answer.-raju
Hi dear Anjali.. am regular reader of your website..
dear please guide me. i am 21 and have one girlfnd too. v tried having sex once but more then her it was paining on my dick.i felt as if the skin of my dick will tear off and if i give a jerk inside her i would start bleeding.i wanna have more sex with her. please tell me what changes happens to a virgin dick. please do answer.
hi Anjali……………………….. aap say ek sawal pocha tha aap nay us ka ans nahi dia kia female k male k sath male ki back said main abjact dalna theek hai plz aap mujh ko ans do na or week main kitni bar sex karna chahia plz bta dain main aap ko dobara sms karha hoo plz ans me
Hi Anjali
My GF is very fair color,her pussy is dark,what is the color of pussy of normal female,will these pussy color changes as the age goes up.
In porn films i see actress pussy color is sames as body color.Is the pussy color changes from regions to regions.
Hi mam, i love this site very much. my question is that I have gf & we love each other. I want her cleaned pussy but she is not sure how to clean it easily. please tell me how she can clean her pussy completely? plz ans me.
I have got a big question to you..
please answer it as soon as posssible..
I have a gf and we have sex often but i never inserted my penis into her.
i want to know wethr there is any safe time to have insertion without condoms also avoid pregnency.
like somewer i read about safe sex during her periods..
I want to get a confirm answer.
I have been following this blog for 4 months and i am very much satisfied with your answers.Please answer this question so that i can do my……
Hi
I have been trying to have an affair with a muslim lady (married), after a lot of talks now she is ok but insists we have sex without condoms, im not really sure what to do. Please advice
Hi Aunty Anjali! Nice work that you do. A timid person like me can also ask a question.
When i was 12 years old, i had an infection in epididymis and it was very painful. All i remember about medical details was that the antibiotic given to me was Blue Mox. After the infection got cured, my left testis (epididymis also was left) started becoming shorter and shorter. I could not go to a doctor as i was too young to understand the gravity of situation. Eventually the testis has disappeared. that time my penis would not even erect. exactly one year later i discovered my puberty had started and i started masturbation also. I am now 27 and i have only one testis. I know that sooner or later i will get married. My question is, can i become a father? Potency of my penis is real good and i have a good semen quantity too. I have not been able to get a fertility test done. How much does that cost? do i really need do get it done? If atall there is a problem, is it treatable? One thing more, during entire time period I never had a problem on my right side. Please help. Also tell me that if atall i need a semen analysis how do i approach a doctor. which specialist i go to? Can i do the test at home myself? I know there are too many questions. But is am still hoping for an answer. Its hope that keeps this world alive.. Thanks.
i am a male of 23 years i had a pennis of 15 cm when errected.
i have no experience of sex till now
is the size of pennis a problem
if yes plz suggest me the way to increase the pennis size….
Hi Anjali Mam, you r great, who can help others, that is why i am asking with hope to your good self. That i am Amit Saini, 30 years, young and unmarried guy. i have an girl friend and we usually intercourse, but i feel guilty when i cum soon, as it takes 1-2 min only. so plz tell how i can increase time while pumping and how i can stay long, atleast 8-10 min. plz help me. thanks for your anticipation. hope for early reply.
anjli anti mera mann karta hai k main apke chut maru keya app mujhe apne chut dainge
Hi Anjali mam, you simply rock
Hi anjali mam, iam 18 years old. iam male. i have a habit of masturbation. my neighbours are asking that why r u becoming very thin now a days? my friends are also asking that why r u becoming very thin, r u masturbating daily? they r asking like that mam. because of masturbation only, iam becaming thin r any other reason? please reply as early as possible mam.
THANK YOU MAM
hi,anjali u r doing a great job for us,i have a great desire to fuck a girl,but my parents feel iam a good boy ,how did i fuck a girl,where does i go,told me, the best place for fucking,iam at hyderabad,where does i find a best girl for fucking,my friends told me some places,but they r not safe ,so if u know the best place,where the girls available for safesex.
hi anjali,i have a doubt u should only help me.i m loving a girl.she is very beautiful and one thing is she is 3 years elder than me.we both are loving sincerly and we talk lot about sex.we both decided to have sex anjali.my question is is the pussy of female will be harder to erect.what we should do before erecting?will women’s pussy is harder to erecct?i hate licking their pussy anjali.tell me some other way to erect easily anjali.plz……..
HI ANJALI,
I HAV A PROBLM SINCE 2 YEARS.
I M AKRAM. I STARTED MY ENGINEERING IN THE YEAR 2007, I USED TO HAVE A FRIEND AND I WAS TOO CLOSE TO HER. BUT AS OTHERS STARTED COMMENTING TOWORDS US, WE DIDNT TALK TILL NOW. SOMETIMES I USED TO TALK EITHER DIRECTLY OR THROUGH MOBILE. BUT NOW I AM IN LOVE WITH HER. I AM NOT LOOKING NICE. AS I LOVE HER A LOT, I HAVE OPENED TWO COMPANIES WHICH START WITH HER NAME.
PLEASE SUGGEST ME, HOW TO GET ATTENTION TOWORDS ME, OR GET ATTRACTED TOWORDS ME. I DONT REALLY TALK MUCH OR TALK WITH OTHER GIRLS. I AM ALONE AND CALM ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT WAYS TO GET FAME IN THE WORLD AND BE A CELEBRITY THROUGH THE WORK I DO THROUGH MY COMPANIES. PLEASE SUGGEST ME THE WAY TO ATTRACT HER AND THE WAY TO PROPOSE HER. I AM THINKING TO BE WITH HER FOR LIFE TIME.
HOPE YOU WILL REPLY SOON.
I NEED URGENTLY.
PLEASE SEND THE ANSWER URGENTLY. PLEASE………
hello aunty
i am rahul from delhi.i just want ur suggestion for sumthing which is goin on in my lyf.let me tell all of this started 3 yrs back.i was very much sexually attracted to my chachi(my dads younger brothers wife)she is now 42 yrs old and i am 22 yrs old.she also has son 1 year younger to me. she is a typical housewife with a voluptous body.i was lusting for her for the past 10 yrs.and during this period i have seen her naked more then few hundred tyms while she was taking bath or changing her clothes but almost 3yrs back once i was lookin at her nude while she was changing clothes she caught me red handed and then she took me inside the room and inquired abt for how long has this been goin on i told her sorry and she said she wont tell anyone if i have sex wid her.i agreed because it was my dream come true we had sex that day.a very long session of sex.we had oral ,anal and very dirty sex.she likes it all she just loves the way i hav sex wid her.she says my uncle never had oral that’s why she’s jus crazy 4 me.we have sex almost three times a week.the more she is getting older the more hornier she is becoming.evn i am addicted to her now.i kno dat it is wrong but she doesnt find anything wrong in it she says my uncle cannot please her. she jus loves anal sex my uncle used to have anal sex before but for the past 9 years he stopped thats why she loves me in the bed.she says she jus loves the the dirty and kinky type of sex i have with her n she just doesnt wanna stop this and one more thing she even made me have sex with her younger sister who is 31yrs old.her younger sisters husband is most of the tyms on official tours so whenever he goes out my chachi goes to her sisters house to stay in the night and calls me to go there to stay in the night and we three wenoy group sex throughout the night day by day her urge for sex is increasing.whenever i go to her house even if sum1 is there like her sons or someone she takes me to her room and we have quick anal sex.i kno this is wrong and i want to stop it but i am not able to stop myself day by day we are having more and more sex.she always says one thing that she just loves the dirty sex we have and says that my chacha never does it.im kind of addicted to her body so please tell me how can i stop thishow do i control myself plz plz plz help me out from this……
i will be eagerly waiting for ur reply……….
hello anjali aunty.
my name is dharmesh and i have question is
near to my home there is one girl living and i am interested to her and also she looks at me in different manner.
she always looks at me like one girl who interested in guy with shy eyes and she always looks at me like this so can you please give me great idea to get her to me ?
how can i propose her though i am shy person and very fussy of this girls and scandal matter.
hi Anjali,
I have a problem here, when i fuck sluts with condoms even for 2 hrs, im not able to cum, but when i have sex without any protection i can cum but even that takes about 15 to 30 mins. i used to shag a lot, did i hurt my penis nerves??? is there any solution for this, will this affect my married life??? pls help me…
hello anjali aunty.
my prob is i’m 20 years old me doing masturbating past 6 years. I cums out within 1 min is this a problem. and moreover i feel pain in my penni after the masterbatus pls help me give me some suggestions
Hai anjali didi,
Iam a24 old man. 3gf’s in my life. every ones r elderthan me. the q. is I peeping to gf’s vagina how feel it. After any illnes r created. everyone’s wanted to sperms wanted.
I am married & 44 yrs my wife is not at interested in sex at all . i still masturbate regularly. Give me suggestion what is to be done or is there any tablet like Viagra for men.
I await your reply
hey anjali, how are you??
thanx for solving soo many questions of people out here,
i have a question too and would be grateful if u can solve it,
i am great sex life, question is recently i started using a condom named kamasutra long last, its was good, it is actually, it really prolongs my climax to a great extent but the only problem i get after using it that my dick’s skin becomes itching and it makes me feel to rub it a lot and as a result of which it gets slightly swollen, it becomes red too..
Now can u tell what is it all about? Tell me if i shall i discontinue using it?
If yes then also suggest some good condoms with this quality to make me last long while having intercourse, and please tell me those brands only which i can easily find in india’s local drug stores..
As always thanks a lot for doing such a great job out here..
i wam waitin for ur reply, take care..
hi anjali, i really appreciate your work………to help out of all innocent young guys/girls…..
actually i have also a question…..
when first time i do sex with my gf then….when i insert my penis in his vagina….then she had lots of pain…..and i stop doing sex with her
is it really true,,,,,,,,,,that first time during sex girls suffer lots of pain…..?
is it true………..then please tell me how to do safe sex at first time…….
thanks
Sunny
Hii..aunty..you are really great in givin good suggestions..i like it.
i ve a fetish for a girls ass..like in tinto brass movies..i ‘ve no gf’s but i fuck in brothels..i love licking ass..and fingering it….I cum usually by licking it..is licking a gals ass..normal or i’ve some problem??
thanks
hi Anjali,
I have a problem here, when i fuck sluts with condoms even for 2 hrs, im not able to cum, but when i have sex without any protection i can cum but even that takes about 15 to 30 mins. i used to shag a lot, did i hurt my penis nerves??? is there any solution for this, will this affect my married life??? pls help me…
i mastrubate daily how to stop mastrubating your advice plse
anjali mam.
my name is s…kumar ….21 years old my prob is doing masturbating past 4 years. I cums out within 15 seconds is this a problem. so any problem for my marriage life plz tell me …….. pls help me….mam…..thank u
hi aunty
your replying to only some of the questions which where posted.few questions where felt. Even my question is unattended why it is happening dont u have any answer to my question or your not seen it. your replying the answer which are repeatedly asked.there are some problems of other which can get the answer by seeing the all previous posted question but my problem’s answer i couldnt find in them .so please help me aunty again ill repeat the question.
i need ur help please .i have married last year,and had sex very well.But now i can to abroad my wife stays with her parents.Here the problem is when ever we chat or talk about sex she use to get jelly type substance in her urine and even good feeling while urining.Is that good or bad,is she having any disorder or due to lack of sex is that happening. please reply me soooon. Am worried about her a lot please aunty..
hi aunty i’m a 25 year young guy .. ‘m very much interested in doing sex … i’m still a virgin but intended to hav a lot of fun wit girls.. so if u know any girls who are sexually unsatisfied pls do tel me im redy to satisfy them… i’m stayin at banglore..
mam,
am 25 years old man nd i have married recently,the problem is my penis is too small nd my wife is not satisfied with it. Is there any way to increase the length of ma penis.
WIATING 4 UR REPLY…………..
hello Anjali… i love your comments its awesome….
my question is how do ladies squrit whille having sex???
Thank You… Plz Reply….
How to stop masturbation aunty? Now i’m 21.I’m masturbating from 8th. I’m afraid it will affect my health seriously. I can feel the thirst for sex in me. But i should not masturbate. help me aunty………
Hi Anjali
i have been married for 5 years and me and my wife are going along very smoothly. Although i am happy with my married life but not so happy with my sexual life. My wife does not like sucking my penis and she also never allow me to do her ass so to say that her ass is still virgin. how can i make her do both the things. we both are 33 yrs old
HI Anjali,
How are you?
I am 21 years old and i like wearing ladies undergarments. I luv masterbating using used panties. The smell and excitement of the used panty makes me go crazy. This feeling makes me go top of the world. Is it normal in people of my age.
Last month it was raining and i got so horny and wanted to masterbate. I didnot get any panties and so i took my aunts sandals and masterbated using it. Since it was leather , lot of heat was generated and my penis got red. and started bleeding. Please tell me what to do.
Dear Anjali,
Thanks in Advance.
I’m Robert De’souza from Pune. I am a marketing manager in a private company. I’m married for around 2 years and My wife is from Delhi.
I’m a god fearing person and I go to church regularly. I try to follow the Bible and I have a moral and principle in my life.
I’m in a very critical phase of my life.
On my first day of my marriage, I came to know that my wife was having an affair before marriage. I told her that I dont mind what has happened in the past, but i told her to be loyal to me after marriage.
But she continued to maintain the phone contact and I dont know if she had any other physical relationship. I warned her so many times to quit this if she wants to live with me. But instead of quitting this, she started to justifying that it is just a friendship.
But I have seen the texts that she has sent to that guy, which were all talking bad about me and my physique. Also she has insulted me so many times comparing me with the other person whom she is in affair. She continued romancing with that guy over phone. I spoke to their parents about this and they are behaving totally irresponsible.
Now she have a baby. I have moved to court asking for a divorce from her. For more than 6 months, she didnt contacted me and suddenly she started talking to me. She is saying that she want to live with me and now on she wont repeat this. But she had told this many time and continued repeating the same mistakes.
But I am not getting confidence in her words. Also I’m worried about the future of the child.
In one of your previous answer you have quoted,
“…. They say that once you cheat you will always be a cheat. I don’t know if that is entirely true but your girlfriend certainly
has a past of it so I would imagine it will continue through out her life…..”
This answer has confused me further.
Please help me take a decision.
Thanks
Robert
reply soon! i m juz 17 yrs old n i had sex for the 1st time but while i was gonna insert it , ma dick slept n again while smoochin i aroused n again while goin for my babe it slept !??????????n yh nor the erection is so hard ! wat to do mail me plz! n yh stop laughin on it ! hehe
thx cheers
Hi Anjali aunty how many sexually transmitted infections are there please define them
hello aunty i have been reading your answers and they are all good. I am going to marry within few months but I have been masturbating for the past 10 years. Deos it harm my sex life? I ejaculate early so is there ant medicine or method so that it can extend my enjoyment. If you know some medicines let me know. thank you aunty…….
hi i am prince and i mastrubate a lot. sometimes in a day 2 to 3 time i mastrubate . is there any problem. and my cock is fully with skin . i have seen all cocks .when it become straight the skin on the cock come back. but my skin on the cock will never come back. soo pls suggest me.
i am mastrubrating form my age 15 now i’m 22 till iam mastrubrating 2wise a day is there any problem in my future pls give me a suggetion
hi aunjali aunty……i’m shanky
I’m really impressed bcoz u are doing a great job for us…
Now my question is that when i have sex with my girlfriend i cum earlier…
I want to how much time is good to cum….i cummed in1 minute……
i think my girlfriend is not satisfied with me……so how do i solve this problem……kindly give me answer….