Ask Anjali – My girlfriend cannot reach orgasm – how do I help her?

Hi Anjali Aunty,

You are doing a great job. I think you will make my query clear.

I and my girlfriend are having great in bed. I am able to stay on bed for about 15 minutes with good speed. But my girlfriend cannot acheive orgasm and does not squirt. We do foreplay first and then everything wild as we can do. My penis size is near about 5 inches.

Please help us to have a lot of enjoyment on bed.

Aunty Anjali says:

Hi
Your girlfriend not reaching orgasm during sex is nothing new. Most girls do not orgasm from sex itself but rather through clitoral stimulation.

The easiest ways for a girl to orgasm is by herself. She will be under no pressure to do it and she can do all the right moves at the right time.

Now this isn’t the best situation for you since you want to join her and have fun with it. It is important that she does do this because if she can’t make herself cum then how can you be expected to try?

As partners you should communicate what you want and she should tell you what she wants done to her to make her squirm.

You should also try to spend more time on foreplay. Try to make her orgasm with your tongue before you start any sex.

A vibrator can also help you move things along if you can get your hands on one of those.

Try all these techniques but do not stress if you are unsuccessful.

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7 Responses to “Ask Anjali – My girlfriend cannot reach orgasm – how do I help her?”

  1. James Spencer says:

    @ Writer of the query.. What do you mean when you say..

    ” I think you will make my query clear.I and my girlfriend are having great in bed. I am able to stay on bed for about 15 minutes with good speed….Please help us to have a lot of enjoyment on bed.”

    Dude, You gotta learn English Grammer first before you even jibe a word in English..!! If you aren’t comforable to write in English, then write in Hindi, but don’t make a fool of yourself by writing something that sounds gibberish..!

    But, to be honest, the punch line of this query was, “I am able to stay on bed for about 15 minutes with good speed..” Ha Ha Ha Ha… :D If you have a good speed then join the Olympics, why just restrict your talent to the bed! or even better, run for a charitable organisation in the Airtel Half Marathon.. :D … LOL.. :D :D :D

  2. James Spencer says:

    @ Writer of the query.. What do you mean when you say..

    ” I think you will make my query clear.I and my girlfriend are having great in bed. I am able to stay on bed for about 15 minutes with good speed….Please help us to have a lot of enjoyment on bed.”

    Dude, You gotta learn English Grammer first before you even jibe a word in English..!! If you aren’t comfortable to write in English, then write in Hindi, but don’t make a fool of yourself by writing something that sounds gibberish..!

    But, to be honest, the punch line of this query was, “I am able to stay on bed for about 15 minutes with good speed..” Ha Ha Ha Ha… :D If you have a good speed then join the Olympics, why just restrict your talent to the bed! or even better, run for a charitable organisation in the Airtel Half Marathon..:D … LOL.. :D :D :D

  3. James Spencer says:

    @ Anjali..

    Wolla.. You write in Gibberish too..

    “Now this isn’t the best situation for you since you want to join her and have fun with it. It is important that she does do this because if she can’t make herself cum then how can you be expected to try?”

    I’ve already fixed your appointment with “Speak Well” English Academy.. Join them soon.. :D (or else we will die with laughter!) .. LOL ..

  4. recneps semaj says:

    @James Spencer
    “Dude, You gotta learn English Grammer first before you even jibe a word in English..!!”

    The word is Grammar & not Grammer.

  5. James Spencer says:

    @ Semaj..

    Thanks a million for pointing out my mistake.. I appreciate that.. :D

  6. Hello All says:

    Mr James Spen…OR Lund Fakir……. I think the questioner got his query answered as Anjali understood the context… dont try to show your english skills here….I am the moderator and next time you comment something irrelevant like you did this time, I will block your comments

  7. crysis fan says:

    fuck u all!!!

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