Raj says:
Hi Anjali Akka.
This is Raju. How are you? I hope you were fine. I didn’t get any answer from you for my previous 2 questions. I am very much disappointed for this. Anyways I hope this time you will give answer to me.
I am wheatish looking, average body. I’m pursuing MBA in a local college. I loved my BBM classmate for the last 3 years. I couldn’t propose to her due to fear. Now she has joined our MBA college itself. She is in another section. All was right till I came to know about her that she is engaged with my previous classmate.
She only openly told me that she is engaged with her friend. Till now I had not proposed my love to her. But I cared for her but she also know that I care for her in a friendly view. I love her very very very much. I can give anything for her. Still now I can. I wish their relationship would break up.
I have never seen her from a sexual point of view. I am very emotional in this matter. He is also doing MBA somewhere. I feel very much jealous with him – I don’t know why? I would be happiest person in the world if she agree to my love and if she leave him.
One more thing is that her friend told me that our pair is good. Both of us are traditional and cultural. I know our chemistry matches – like RAB NE BANA DE JODI. I love my darling in real life and death problem.
Friends and Aunty I have revealed everything in front of you. Please suggest me how can make her my girlfriend?
Please help.
Anjali Aunty says:
Hi Raj,
First and foremost let me make this clear – this is not RAB DE BANA DE JODI. What are you 12 years old??? Stop believing what silly things others say about you and gather the guts to inform the girl yourself. How can you love a girl for three years and not tell her?
Tell her. Don’t make a big issue it. Just give it to her straight. Acting like a drama king could make her reject you. Don’t get angry with her if she says no. Remember, loving someone is not something people plan or do on purpose. Strong feelings like love arise from emotional stimulation, not choice. Respect her reaction. If she doesn’t love you back, your life isn’t over; it may be hurt, but that’s how she feels. Plus this will take a huge load off your chest…
