AskAnjali – I pity my girlfriend more than I love her – what do I do?

Apacheking asks:

Hi Anjali Aunty,

I am a 26 year old single guy. I have been going around with a girl for the last 3 years. My problem is that now my parents are expecting me to get married to her. They do not have any problem with my girlfriend but I have a problem. I am not really happy with her. I pity her more because she is an orphan and has had a difficult life but she is very stubborn and does not even want to try to change things that I would want her to change. Simple things like accompanying me when I go to my friend’s place or eating at my favourite restaurant etc. but she is very happy with me cause I agree with her almost all the time because I don’t want to hurt her.

But now I am thinking whether I want to live the rest of life like this and I am confused. Please suggest me.

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