Jejitha : Hi there, Age 29, married and have a kid of age 2. Have many doubts; hope you will clear it all.
We got married 4 years ago. At that time planned to have a kid after a year and postponed it by using condoms during the unsafe periods. Remaining days we enjoyed naturally and were happy. Both of us like natural sex, he and me too like ejaculating inside pussy. But when using condoms I don’t feel so sexy when he ejaculates and we don’t want to use pills for birth control. Later we got a kid. Now he has been advised by his friend to fuck naturally and when he gets ready to cum out, at the last second he takes it out from my pussy and will cum on my stomach or on my thighs. Can you help some other good ways to enjoy properly?
Every day, even on a menstrual day we used to have minimum 2 times a day, morning and night. While having in night he used to ejaculate fast rather than early morning even he uses the stop start methods. Is it a problem and what would be the reason for it? While menstrual periods he used to keep the dick in between my thighs and used to ejaculate, i won’t remove my jest at that time, is it harmful to keep his dick inside my pussy during menstrual time? He like giving blow job and me too, but he like ejaculating cum inside my mouth, I used to get it in my mouth and will spit in out, he does not like, I know its because of my psychological thinking that drinking cum is harm, kindly advice.
I like licking and sucking his balls, but it will be full of hair and even he shaves it frequently it used to grew the next day and make me uncomfortable, any advice for this.
I like him licking and sucking boob nipples, but when he get too immersed into deep sex, he starts biting and he feel more sexy when I shout out of pain – any psychological treatment needed for him for this? Waiting for your response at the earliest…
Anjali Aunty : Dear Jejitha, I’d like to congratulate you for being so bold and unfazed to bring your problems to the Blog. A lot of women are usually very shy and don’t come forth with their issues – instead suffering silently.
Firstly I must say that the advice given by the friend is very wrong. Whenever a man fucks, the cock releases precum also before actual ejaculation. This is the clear cum like solution which appears on the cock whenever a man is sexually excited. The issue here is that this precum ALSO can contain small amounts of sperm enough to make you pregnant. So this method of removing the cock out of the pussy just before ejaculation will not work at all. Since you both are not comfortable wearing condoms, you can at least have unprotected sex ONLY when you have your periods. Proper cleaning and hygiene will be enough – Just make sure you’ll both clean your private parts before and after the act. But I would still recommend the condom. If not that, at least get on the pill – this will mean good sex without the use of condoms and you’ll can enjoy your natural sex also.
He must be ejaculating faster in the night because of tiredness and the urge to go to bed faster. In the morning, the body is much more relaxed and hence he can keep fucking you for a longer time. Drinking cum is not at all harmful. You will not get pregnant and it’s also not harmful for your health. Infact it’s real sexy when you drink your man’s cum – The look of satisfaction that his warm juices are swallowed by your sexy mouth will make him even hornier for a second session. But if you are still not comfortable, you can just talk to him and arrange to give him a blowjob and then a handjob when he is about to cum.
You can always get him to trim his pubic hair before licking and sucking his balls. Men love to have their cocks and balls sucked – and you could always suck his cock and use your hands for massaging his balls. He might get carried away while fucking you and hence must be biting your nipples. Just tell him during the act that it’s hurting you and ask him to slow down a bit; I’m sure that he will listen to you. You could also ask him to stop using his teeth and use his lips while sucking on your nipples.
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# karan Says:
November 14th, 2007 at 11:59 am
Hi anjali,
i m male 40 yr old, married with 10 yr son. i m new to this forum but i read lamost all ur advice from archive. i like it very much and found it more iteresting and knowledgable. thanks for good service u r doing by removing doubt of the peoples mind. it is best forum to remove doubt aboput sex problem as it is still stigma to visit sexologist.
Now i m sharing my problem and hoping ur enlightening advice on it. as i said i m married for last 10 yr. my wife is very orthodox and rigid in metality and very little chance for one to convince her on naything specially one sex.i failed to convice her about importance in sex life.
in short she bever allowed me to lick her private part or she never did blojob to me ( i like both ) though i tried to convice her and employed all method in convinceing love , as well abgry mode. she never ready to do sex by anyother posture than misinory one. though she wants sex and comes early in missinory position. anyway i was enjoying at elast sexual fulfillment as i m not complaining type person. we are using condoms during sex since first kid born and never wanted another one.
now i m finding that when my private part is hard and i put condoms on it just before entering into my wifes private part my penis starts shrinking . when i remvies condoms it becomes normal again but i ejaculate early and not able to satisfy her for 4-5 minutes though it was very nice sex life in missionary position though other thing i wanted the most.
we have argumentive type relationship for last few year though we loves each other much and have no other fligs or relationship outside marriage begore or after marriage and we are committed to each other.
avise me why it is so, that whn i put condoms, my penis shrinks and i m not able to insert it in her vergina.
hoping that u will advise me properly.
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Hi Anjali Aunty,
You’re really done nice job, In this modern world,lots of have , lots of conclusion and doubts, its very nice to share with u, and be clear, i just wanna know about penis, how can i make that bigger, i have very small penis, so i wanna know, how can i make penis bigger, but i confident about my sexual approach with gal its nice, i’m fear about that sometimes, pls give good advice
hai angali,i am 18 years guy loved to be tied and spanked and try to do same with my mom with whom i am in incest sex with my mom says it will lead to infections ,i really enjoy pain,we include tieng her to bed and whipping her with belt,stich on her butt.am i right ,do this lead to any problems?
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hi anjali mam, i am a 21 year old man and i have a query regarding circumcision.actually i am uncircumcised so can it be a great hindrant in having sex.pls reply