Ask Anjali: Should I masturbate?
John says: Hello Aunty. I am 24 years old and I am a very shy guy. To be frank, I haven’t masturbated in my life. Is it necessary? Once I tried for five minutes but I didn’t get any response. Since then I am just watching movies and nothing more. Please help me out so I can improve.
Anjali says: Hi John. I am so glad that you have trusted me with your questions. Thank you for asking!
Now, masturbation is by no means a necessary task for young men but I do encourage it. For one, it really helps you to get to know your body and what you find sexually stimulating. As a young girl, I used to masturbate a lot. Learning about all the places that turned me on as a girl made me more comfortable as a lover in my later years. I was also more comfortable about telling a lover what I liked and where to touch me to get me excited the most. Masturbating is just plain fun as well!
There are many ways that guys like to masturbate and I’ve been lucky enough to have a few lovers share it with me. I love watching a guy stroke his penis to a nice hard firmness! And then I can see what he likes. Most guys do tend to like to use something to make their hands slide over their skin better. Most will use something like baby oil and it apparently feels very good! I even knew a guy that liked to masturbate with butter!
Try different things and different speeds. Some guys like slow and leisurely while others like fast and firm. I strongly recommend getting to know your body and what turns you on. It will make you a better lover!
August 25th, 2008 at 6:28 pm
hii anjali ..very nice of ur replies to the questions.
i m havin a serious problem with my pennis.
im 19 years old and i hav been masterbating since i was 13.
but i find my red part of penis still sensitive. i cant even touch it .
my doubt is how can i hav sex normally. due to this senstivity i am cumming in jus 1-2 minutes. plz say som solution to reduce my sensitivity and hav normal pennis
August 26th, 2008 at 7:51 am
PLEASE DONT IGNORE THIS QUESTION ANJALI MADAM…
.but i truly love her a lot..i even want to marry her.i want to keep her & our relationship happy. PLEASE PLEASE help me Anjali…please tell me any Method or any Medicine-alopathic/homeopathic/ayurvedic so that i can increase size of my penis considerably to around 6inch. seriously u r the last ray of hope for me. my relation is in your hands..Please Reply here or to my e-mail id…PLEASE REPLY ANJALI ..IM WAITING…………..
Hello Anjali ji…im Karan Sharma,22. i have read all the solutions you have provided to so many curious, unsatisfied and confused people..you are a great friend to all those PEOPLE. i was a bit hesitant about sharing my problem but after reading your answeres, now im confident that u will give me the best solution……
im 22yrs, me & my girlfriend r having sex from last 2 yrs,once or twice a month..im a passionate lover, i start with a sexy foreply and then move forward. both of us give oral pleasures to each other..now the serious problem is- from around 8 months back she seems to be loosing interest in sex with me and does not get exited by seeing my penis..actually my penis is just 3.8 inch…now she has started teasing me directly & indirectly about my penis small size. sometimes she teases like “hey karan your younger brother must be having 6 inch cock,waow!!” or “how does it feels to have a big cock in a pussy” etc. etc. etc. in a teasing manner. i get so frustrated and humiliated, a cant tell you how bad i feel
August 26th, 2008 at 9:47 am
hi anjali ..i am a 21yr old guy…i have a habit of masturbating, mostly i will masturbate by seeing sex movies . My problem is i will ejaculate in 1-2 min and later i lost interest , so once i tried with an 30yrs old layer before inserting in her i cumed .i am afraid that in future i cant satisfy my wife …pls say a solution for this that is how toextent the time of cuming…
August 26th, 2008 at 1:40 pm
anjali these ppl dont want,what u like what u dont.but all the time u say,ohh i like this and that bla bla bla.just give them there answer.dont be stupid. u son of bitch
August 30th, 2008 at 4:10 am
Robert Lion here….Is Anjali Aunty lo Liquid Oxygen mein daal do…liquid ise jeene nahi dega aur oxygen ise marne nai dega….
ye saza isko isliye de gayi hai kyonki ye tharki anjali aunty nahi anjali aunta hai…
September 4th, 2008 at 10:39 am
Hi Anjali, Hw r u????
maine apke kai post read ki hai aap itni aasani se jawab de deti ho, ya to ap female ho nahi agar ho to plz mujhe meri mail id pe kuch details send kar do agar mujhe mails mili to isi jagah main kuch aise comment fead karunga k jo apke agains bolne walo ko kuch na kahne k liye kafi honge,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i am waiting anjali
September 9th, 2008 at 9:26 am
Hai anjalli i am not yet married but i had sex with my girl friend nearly for 10 times…….even now she says that she is not yet satisfied with me even i had inserted my penis in her hole nearly my penis is about 8cm but she says that to lick her pussy i too licked her yummy pussy……now a days she doesnt washes her pussy after going toilets the mud remains at a little amount over there and remains to be washless for nearly one week and then she asks me to lick her yummy pussy……I too enjoyed that with sweet smelling ………now a days she wants to fuck her hardly in the toilet itself……….and she wants me lick her over there and she likes to sleep with me nude in night by bitting my penis……My only doubt is whether it is good to lick her pussy by without washing her toilet matter……….pls give me a solution……….!
September 10th, 2008 at 8:17 am
Hi,
My question I guess is more common.
but like to know from you or if this was answered, reference for me to read back please.
Pre-mature ejaculation. Any cure by excercise ? or practical means ?
Pls consider a reply.
Thks