Sanjay says: Hiii Anjali… I’m regular viewer of your column. Your answers are super. Seems that you explored each and every thing in sex. Well done Gr8 job you are doing.
I have one problem. I use to rub my dick with my body when I’m hot. Due to this my dick skin is so sensitive that at the time of sex I feel sensation in whole dick. Due to this I ejaculate in few minutes. Please advice me what to do to reduce sensation in my dick skin.
Anjali says: Hi Sanjay. I’m glad you are enjoying my column. I enjoy writing it. And I enjoy sharing with everyone as well.
Many men out there have a very sensitive penis. In fact, most men do to some degree. That is why a lot of men prefer to use condoms. They come in all different sizes and shapes so everyone should be able to find a type of condom that works for them. And they can be fun as well, with different flavors and ribbing and such.
The part that would work best for you is that they do help decrease sensitivity a bit. Not so much that you won’t be able to cum but perhaps enough that it will help you last longer. Another trick that some men use is to masturbate before they are going to be with their lady. If a man cums once it usually takes some time to get hard again and then once he is hard he will usually not cum so fast. Give that a try. She might even like to watch! As I have mentioned before, I quite like watching a guy stroke his penis until he cums!
And just as a side note, you may see advertisements for creams and such that will de-sensitize but I don’t recommend them. You never know exactly what is in them and you can’t be sure they won’t cause an allergic reaction of some type and I don’t think you want that there! Stick with natural methods as I have suggested above.