Sanjay says: Hiii Anjali… I’m regular viewer of your column. Your answers are super. Seems that you explored each and every thing in sex. Well done Gr8 job you are doing.
I have one problem. I use to rub my dick with my body when I’m hot. Due to this my dick skin is so sensitive that at the time of sex I feel sensation in whole dick. Due to this I ejaculate in few minutes. Please advice me what to do to reduce sensation in my dick skin.
Anjali says: Hi Sanjay. I’m glad you are enjoying my column. I enjoy writing it. And I enjoy sharing with everyone as well.
Many men out there have a very sensitive penis. In fact, most men do to some degree. That is why a lot of men prefer to use condoms. They come in all different sizes and shapes so everyone should be able to find a type of condom that works for them. And they can be fun as well, with different flavors and ribbing and such.
The part that would work best for you is that they do help decrease sensitivity a bit. Not so much that you won’t be able to cum but perhaps enough that it will help you last longer. Another trick that some men use is to masturbate before they are going to be with their lady. If a man cums once it usually takes some time to get hard again and then once he is hard he will usually not cum so fast. Give that a try. She might even like to watch! As I have mentioned before, I quite like watching a guy stroke his penis until he cums!
And just as a side note, you may see advertisements for creams and such that will de-sensitize but I don’t recommend them. You never know exactly what is in them and you can’t be sure they won’t cause an allergic reaction of some type and I don’t think you want that there! Stick with natural methods as I have suggested above.
Hello aunty… I asked you a question the other time but I’m not getting any reply.. I’m scared about my problem.. Please do reply to me when you can… Thanxs a lot..
hi, aunty how can i increase my cock’s soze……….. my one is tooo small will girls like small one pls advice me….
hi
i really like ur site as my friend told about ur sit.plz guide me im faceing some problems. i m b v great full to u.when i frist go 4 sex with my gfriend a few month ago as i enter my penis into her vigina i discharge with in a minuts.and few days after when i enter my penis in his anus again i face same problem.but when she give me a hand and mouth job its take 20 to 25 mints to discharge.plz help mine.one thing more im living to near islamabad pakistan plz if any lady in this area who help me and give me his service in regards of sex (teach me how to do a sex with grils )plz help me .im b v greatfull to him.plz anti can u help in in this regards plz plz plz plz plz plz plz.plz give me advice to increase my penis size.plz respond on my mail plz plz plz plz plz hope u understand my problm
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i really like ur site as my friend told about ur sit.plz guide me im faceing some problems. i m b v great full to u.when i frist go 4 sex with my gfriend a few month ago as i enter my penis into her vigina i discharge with in a minuts.and few days after when i enter my penis in his anus again i face same problem.but when she give me a hand and mouth job its take 20 to 25 mints to discharge.plz help mine.one thing more im living to near islamabad pakistan plz if any lady in this area who help me and give me his service in regards of sex (teach me how to do a sex with grils )plz help me .im b v greatfull to him.plz anti can u help in in this regards plz plz plz plz plz plz plz.plz give me advice to increase my penis size.plz respond on my mail plz plz plz plz plz hope u understand my problm. plz plz plz plz plz
hi Anjali
i need a girl friend or any housewife/service female who need of massage of full body and physical relations. pls help me to find
Hi Anjali,
I have been reading the answers you post to readers queries and would like to thank you for your worl. I have a question of my own
I am a 37 year old male. I was married 12 years ago. The sexual life was good. However due to some reasons we got divorced. I have never had a girlfriend or sex with anybody since then. I have been masturbating almost everyday since then and watching a lot of porn. Now I have been observing lately that 1) I dont get an erection on my own anymore. I get it only after I actually rub my penis for a minute or so. 2) I ejaculate within 2 minutes of getting hard. 3) sometimes i dont get hard at all and ejaculate if i keep on trying for some time. Have I lost my capability to have sex in future?
Dear anjali aunty,…
Iam a man 21 r old.I have not had actual sex experience with any women till now. Now i have got a chance to have sex with my girl freind.Ihave heard that male penis also has a thread type thing which breaks during first sexual intercourse and it hurts very much.Kindly show me some way out of my problem clear my doubt. I would be grateful to you.
Am sorry aunty. i misd to explain abt my aunty. she is 38yrs old a gud figured. i’ve tried to make her attention towards me but failed everytime. once before 2yrs i tried to put my hand inside her petty coat under saree while she was asleep. suddenly she woke and asked me that wat was i doing?.and from the time she stop speaking with me, but now she is normal. and before the last incident i tried to peep her bathing. and she got doubted and shouted at me but i tried to manage. so now she is normal with me as an aunt. but i have a lust for her. so wat can i do? i think u’ve understood.
mam i hav a penis 1 inch before erection and 4 to 5 whan fully erect can i satisfy a female with this i am fat
few days ago…. i meet with my girlfriend first time….when i saw her body i noticed that her nipples are bigger than normal females nipples….
can u tell me that what is the reason behind that? is she already do sex with any one else? please tell me i m so tensed about that matter….
Hi, i am 28 yr old Divorced guy.. 3 years has passed for my divorce well.. then i started my affair wid a northeast girl now when i have sex with my Girl Friend i cum very fast.. but if i am having sex with my X-Wife i am able to have sex more then 10-15 mins what will be my problem.. what should i do to have a longer sex play wid my girlfriend…
I want to say,there are no way to give me more sex,because i have power of sex.but i want she male with same sex?what do yo think can you really enjoying to the moment,go with small sis sex?
hi anjali, i am of 29 yr old. i was married 5 yrs back. i have a sister in law who is 20 yrs old. every time i see here , i wanna fuck her. she is not having any boyfriend and a good student as well. aunty please tell me how can i fuck her… how can i express my desire….if she refuse i will be in great problem…
Hi anjali ,thanks for answering my quertion, it helped me a lot. il took that girl out twice , and she is ready for me. we r waiting to find a proper time .
i have another problem. my penis is a bit curved towards left. will it have any effect on my sex lilfe ? i can easily masturbate.
Hi anjali,
I have a small doubt that again comes to the point of stroking….. i always get erection and i couldn’t control it…. for a day i use to masturbate atleast thrice… so doing this continously will it harm me by any chance and how do i control my feelingss…….??????? waiting for ur reply…
Hi Anjali,
I am a 32 year old male. I’m married and have two kids. The sexual life was good since about year back. However due to some personal reasons we’re stopped sex. We have resolved our differences but now I have been observing lately that 1) I dont get an erection on my own anymore. I get it only after I actually rub my penis for a minute or so. 2) I ejaculate within 2 minutes of getting hard. 3) sometimes i dont get hard at all and ejaculate if i keep on trying for some time. Have I lost my capability to have sex in future?
i would like to ask aunty anjali that, i cannot hold my sperm for a long time when i masturbate it cummms within 2 minutes time is there any way i can hold my cum while fucking or masturbating?
dear Anjali i hav a question, can a single drop of sperm leads to pregnancy? means a little drop and if it leads to pregnancy then which birth control pills should i refer?????? plz reply
i am living in delhi i want to become play boy for fun and for money, money not neccessary because i am well selltled, i failed to get to marry then one of my friend told me about play boy can u guide me even you can publise my mail id if any lady or gril want play boy they can contact me
i am living in delhi can u tell me who to become play boy in delhi is there channel where i can go
hi,
i know an aunty who had sex with one fellow.
but i havent spoken to both of them. i have only here mail id. i tried to chat with her, but she didnt even add me as a friend. can u give some tips to attract her.
hi
hello anjali
hello anjali
i want to ask that i am 17 and i have got 5 inch lol , when i saw bfs i get amased to see long lol pls help me
i want to have 7-8 inch lol
and also i wantto ask hoew to seduse a gigl to have sex
i am virgin till now
Hi,aunty anjali.i have a problem that during sex with my gf she dosen’t have orgasm i do sex more than 20 mins i also not have orgasm and also she have some burn,plz tell how we solve our problem
hi anjali aunty.i m in a sort of dilema.i have searched so many sites but still not able to find th answer to my question that is what is the average penis length.i have a 5 inch penis and sometimes i feel like i wont b able to satisfy my girlfrnd.she asks me too have sex with her but i never had just coz of this reason.please help me and if u know some techniques to increase the size of a penis please reply.please plz plz.bye
hi anjali aunty….i’m 20 yrs old and i had read many of ur tips and suggestions and all r gud and sounds gr88 and here is my question
i do masturbate nd i follow ur do and stop method and when i do it 4r a hour or 2 my balls starts paining y is so is it safe 2 do so long
thnks for ur advice
Hi, mam Anjali, i am 19 years old and i want to ask you about my dick itz 4.5″ i think itz not 2 much long i want to make it longer and a little bit fat plz tell me how can i do tht and if i take medicine or other thing would it be take sad affetcts on sexual life. hope u will guide me bttr!!!
Hi, mam Anjali, i am 19 years old and i want to ask you about my dick itz 4.5″ i think itz not 2 much long i want to make it longer and a little bit fat plz tell me how can i do tht and if i take medicine or other thing would it be take sad affetcts on sexual life. hope u will guide me bttr!!!1
Hi Anjali,
I am very impressed by your sexy answers. Sometimes I feel like to do sex with you. Well, my concern is I am male, 24. I have a cousin female, 24. We never ever hide anything from each other. One month ago, she told me about her BF. Both of them love each other. After hearing all this, I want to do sex with my cousin. But I dont know, how to ask her. Please help me. Thanks.
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Hi Anjali
I realy like this forum as you answer all those questions which we even cant get replyed from others. I have a problem ( i dont know weather it is a problem or not) that my penis get erect even on dirty talk, chat with my gf and even some time thinking of my gf and with in 1 second my penis get erect. some time i became very uncofortable whe i m with friends or when wearin shalwar qamees. i want to know weather this is normal or not, and how can i over come this problem.
thanx
hi anjali i am asking a question from you 1st time and i hope you can solve my problem.
i have girlfriend and i have been gone with her on date many times.i also met her alone in the room but when i say her to do sex she refuses but she permission me to do french kiss.i get horny and can’t control but she all the time refuses me and then i do not force her.please tell me what can i do that she allowed me to do sex with her.please reply me.
i am waiting your answer
HI ANJALI,
I am 28 years old married i am facing problem of premature ejaculation i ejaculate wihtin few minutes . Is there any medicine to cure this problem. I am facing another problem also after the first session of sex whenever i try for the second time my penis does erect after the interval of 30-40 minutes. please give reply as soon as possible.
Hi Anjali realy u r great,anyway Iam 30yrs old married and vvmuch attracted towards my sis in law who is studying issue is this Iam crazy to have sex with her and want to give shower of love to her but my mind and heart always stop me to do this becoz of god fear even I would like to generate same feeling in her,how can I do this and is it right act to do or not anjali kindly help me out from this dilema.
Hi Anjali,
My problem is whenever i had sex with my girlfriend,as soon as i do the intercourse,i comes out quickly. Is it due to smoking??? I am a regular smoker. Please help me out…. i am very worried.
Hi anjali aunty…
Iknow u r doing a great job of advising youths about sex and to enjoy sex as much as possible with care and safety.Hats off to this nice endeavour.I know u r very busy in answering queries since the queries are very large in number.I think my last query perhaps didnt catch ur attention thats why writing new one
my question is: my penis is more than six inch in size and and good in thickness…but as i dont masterbate often so the area below the cap is not visible..that is my penis does not look like penis that once i saw on a blue film.In that the area below the cap was visible and can be stretched back easily…………. plz suggest me a solution….iam very scared…..does it hurt during first sexual encounter
hi anjali ur doing a great job…..i got a simple question..how to know weather a women is virgin or not?
hi aunty i am Rahul a 24 year old boy
i am masturbating from last 8 years
when i am masturbating i also insert my fingure into my ass hole
my penis will erect more & more by doing this so whenever i masturbate
i insert fingure in ass hole by doing this over the years now i feel that my ass are grow bigger than normal can you suggest me how i make my ass small
please help me my self confidence level is very low please me
thank you
hi anjali aunty i am in united state, i am a hot guy and i masturbate for about 6 to 7 times in a day i love sex, i am in america since an year and a half but from last 5 months i am having sex with sex workers, i have a girl friend in india but because i am lonely here and i love having sex i am doing this. But if my g.f comes to know this she would leave me i am afraid of it. I want to stop having sex with other prostitues but i cant stop my self i fuck one every 15 days, i also want to have a g.f over here so that i can fuck her all the time and no need to pay for the prostitues. I love older women of your age and i also have fucked a couple of women who were 40 to 45 years old. I want to know if what all i am doing is right.Do you want me to continue fucking prostitues or is there any other way that i can stop myself. A Big hug from me.
hi anjali ! hope you are doing well .. i dont think you would remember me honey .. let me introduce myself again .. this is vijay prashanth … i have asked you a question and still i dint get a proper answer for that .. iam in love with my mom and wanna fuck her .. we hug eachother and i kiss her in cheeks , neck , shoulders.. i hug her from bihind … i kiss her ear lobes and she likes me doing that but still iam confused .. i dont know how to propose to her .. you told to forget the idea of fucking her but i cant …. i tried to forget her i couldnt … now you are my only hope .. please help me out … please reply me soon … help me out …
i wanna see your pictures anjali .. you told that you would post that … plsss do that too … take care .. waiting for your reply ,
ur fan ,
vijay prashanth
hi anjali ! hope you are doing well .. i dont think you would remember me honey .. let me introduce myself again .. this is vijay prashanth … i have asked you a question and still i dint get a proper answer for that .. iam in love with my mom and wanna fuck her .. we hug eachother and i kiss her in cheeks , neck , shoulders.. i hug her from bihind … i kiss her ear lobes and she likes me doing that but still iam confused .. i dont know how to propose to her .. you told to forget the idea of fucking her but i cant …. i tried to forget her i couldnt … now you are my only hope .. please help me out … please reply me soon … help me out …
i wanna see your pictures anjali .. you told that you would post that … plsss do that too … take care .. waiting for your reply ,
ur fan ,
vijay prashanth
hi Anjali, well my name is Prover (fake) and i am 21 yrs average guy. I am a virgin too but my problem is my penis, i never had sex b4 so i dont know what is the average length that can make a grl happy, i think mine one is bit smaller than a normal. well i m studying medicine but till now i havent come across with the nutrients that can affect upon the length of urethra. my frnds says mastuburate it would help u!! but they are not specilist and they cant say anything w/o any proof so i want a help from a professional one.
How can i Increase the size of my Penis? so thats the main question.
I would really appereciate ur reply.
Regards,
Prover.
Hi, I hope u are well & fine.
I am 20yrs old. & MY Q is tht i masturbate a lot at least 10 times a week.
is this ok. I am now a days getting prblms like hair fall, dullness and other.
is ths due to mstrbtion. wht shd i do to leave mstrbtion
hi recently i got married 2 months and in first nite i had sex for 5 times and after that iam having 2 times sex daily widout leaving a single day from our marriage and i want to ask that does my wife will b able to do whenever i want 2 to 3 days per day is there will be and weakness for having sex daily 2 times from past 2 months
hi anjali……i have a problem…hope you can help me with my problem…..its regards to my girlfriend and me both….we has sex on 3th sep then she had started with her periods after 15th of sep it might be any day…….again we has sex on 3rd oct …both the times..i used condom…not even once i did without it..so didit with condom but today as on 17th oct her periods has not started yet how ever it should have started by 16th or 17th,,,,not started yet…so we are in tension what to do anjali?please reply as soon as possible
Hi Anjali….I really appreciate your help to others by giving them ur valuable tips. I gained lot of knowledge reading ur postings..
My question – I just wanted to know does women cum(ejaculate) during sex. If yes how does their cum look..is it just the water or a white cream like semen?
Hi Anjali
I am guy 24yrs old, So looking very slim and weight is just 47 kg only.I am doing masturbation 5 times per week.My questions is
1.My friends told doing masturbate will loss ur weight.is it true?
2.Doing masturbate will affect my marriage/sex life?
3.could you please tellme Whether girl will like to have sex with guy who are looking very slim like me. also penis size 4.5″ only .
hi anjali
i want to have a sex with auntie beside my house,i want to tempt her, can i use viagra on her tempt her
Hello Anjali!
my question is that is every day mistuburate every is harm full for health or not!
IS any side effect of this?