Sanjay says: Hiii Anjali… I’m regular viewer of your column. Your answers are super. Seems that you explored each and every thing in sex. Well done Gr8 job you are doing.
I have one problem. I use to rub my dick with my body when I’m hot. Due to this my dick skin is so sensitive that at the time of sex I feel sensation in whole dick. Due to this I ejaculate in few minutes. Please advice me what to do to reduce sensation in my dick skin.
Anjali says: Hi Sanjay. I’m glad you are enjoying my column. I enjoy writing it. And I enjoy sharing with everyone as well.
Many men out there have a very sensitive penis. In fact, most men do to some degree. That is why a lot of men prefer to use condoms. They come in all different sizes and shapes so everyone should be able to find a type of condom that works for them. And they can be fun as well, with different flavors and ribbing and such.
The part that would work best for you is that they do help decrease sensitivity a bit. Not so much that you won’t be able to cum but perhaps enough that it will help you last longer. Another trick that some men use is to masturbate before they are going to be with their lady. If a man cums once it usually takes some time to get hard again and then once he is hard he will usually not cum so fast. Give that a try. She might even like to watch! As I have mentioned before, I quite like watching a guy stroke his penis until he cums!
And just as a side note, you may see advertisements for creams and such that will de-sensitize but I don’t recommend them. You never know exactly what is in them and you can’t be sure they won’t cause an allergic reaction of some type and I don’t think you want that there! Stick with natural methods as I have suggested above.
Hi Anjali,
I forget to add one more point. I was pretty ok after some time I mean i was not over excited still my penis didnt erect to its maximumhow. I am confused now. Please guide me.
Regards,
Manoj
Hi Anjali,
I am a big fan of you and fsi. I am in a big problem, please help me. I am 32 year old man married since 7 years. My wife is looking good and I trust her. Since our marriage life we try to having a child. After 5 years I alone decide to checkup by a doctor and the doctor says that I have problem that my semen is sperm less and it is not possible to pregnant any woman by me. I dint believe it and I go to another doctor. Same result. I can’t make pregnant any woman in my whole life. I dint say this to my wife, cause I love her so much and I am afraid that after hear this may be I lost he forever.
Now, the real fact is, she is pregnant in these very time! How could be possible? If I am not able for that then who is the father of this upcoming baby? I want to ask her but I am afraid. I am very much upset to know that my wife is pregnant. Please give me some advice, how can I ask her about this baby or what I have to do in this situation?
Hi Anjali,
Please reply
I will be very greatful to you if you guide me in my problem. Last week I was with my girlfriend for the first time but my penis didnt get erected or it use to erect and immediately it was going to normal. Even I tried 3 or 4 times in a whole day also i did lot of foreplay and enjoyed her body but still that didnt work. Could you please tell me the reason and also the solution for this. Or this means I have some problem in sex life. Please help me.
Regards,
Manoj
Hi Anjali,
After reading your suggetions i think you are the correct person to guide me. I am 27 years old. From couple of months my penis is not erecting to 100% even when i see porn clips or videos and whenever it erects it just lasts for a minute. Earlier it was not like that. what is the reason for this and please tell me the solution also. Thanks in advance for ur help.
Hi Aunty. This’s vicky. I’m 22 years old. I suffer from sex on mind. sometimes in bus I saw a fair women I touch her hips or other place. Few are allow me & most are scolding near my ear. Pleace tell me some callgirls & who want sex with me contact numbers to my mail Id “crazyvicky.ram@gmail.com”. The peoples should in sorrounding Chennai.
Hi Anjali,
After reading your suggetions i think you are the correct person to guide me. I am 27 years old. From couple of months my penis is not erecting to 100% even when i see porn clips or videos and whenever it erects it just lasts for a minute. Earlier it was not like that. what is the reason for this and please tell me the solution also. Thanks in advance for ur help
Hi Anjali…my name is sidra,my age is 22…but the problem is my breasts are so small,these are only size 32 is there any way to enhance my breast with any cream or any medician please if you have any prodecure to enhance my breast please do tell me the method and any cream or medician…thanks anjali…i will wait 4 ur reply.
Please Anjali Help me,
After reading your answers I think you are correct person to give me the solution. I posted my problem earlier also. I have 2 questions
I am just waiting for your suggestion. I am 27 years old.
1. My penis is not erecting how it use to be now. even thogh i tried to watch soem sex movies still it was not erecting to its maximum and also the rection is for very less time.
2. Last week when i was with my girl friend same problem happened. it didnt erected to its full capacity and it was erecting for very short time.
Does this mean i have some problem in my sex life or wat?
your guidance is very essential to me Anjali. Please reply without fail.
Hi Anjali…
I am Ravi and i like to know something important like if we lick the pussy or if we suck the breast or even if we give a lip to lip kiss to a girl who is having AIDS do we also get AIDS… I am asking because if we undergo sex with a girl and we don’t know that she is having AIDS or not…
i have wife and have sex with her. but i also do with my girlfriend. and she drink my cum, i also drink hers. after that i had sex with my wife. do you think i will get HIV. please help me
Hey Anjali,
Very bad ;(, you are not helping me. Please help me. I posted my problem and ur suggetion is very much needed to me.
Please Anjali Help me,
After reading your answers I think you are correct person to give me the solution. I posted my problem earlier also. I have 2 questions
I am just waiting for your suggestion. I am 27 years old.
1. My penis is not erecting how it use to be now. even thogh i tried to watch soem sex movies still it was not erecting to its maximum and also the erection is for very less time.
2. Last week when i was with my girl friend same problem happened. it didnt erected to its full capacity and it was erecting for very short time.
Does this mean i have some problem in my sex life or wat?
your guidance is very essential to me Anjali. Please reply without fail.
Hi Anjali Thank you for your Replies and making more aware of sex for all
I Certainly need your help for right sex
I had sex with a aunty many times with condom. she got married and already had sex with her husband with out condom and she is not well satisified with him. but she wants me to fuck her beautiful pussy with out condom, can i fuck here with out condom tell some safty measures to fuck here with out condom and what about diseases like aids
hi,
i have 14cm pennis , i want it to be around 16or 17 cms, what i have to do
Hi Anjali.
I am 32 years old. Whenever I find time, I love to read your answers. They are really interesting.
I am 30 years old. I am married and my wife now pragnent. I have an widow mother-in-law who also live with us. We are only three member in our familly. My Mother in law who is 45+ years old take care of me because my wife does not feal well. Due to my wife is pragnent, since last two month I had no sex with my wife, I am very much faithfull to my wife. The problem is my mother in law is now trying to seduce me in many ways, and day by day it is increasing. She told me that she saw me to masurbate and she feels bad for me because i can’t do sex with my wife due to her pregnancy, and she is also going through the same situation because she is widow. I don’t want to say, but she also told me she saw my massive tools, and she praise about it many many times. She indirectly indicated that she want to have sex with me. Now i became very confused what to do? because in this side i have wife on the other side I have strongly physical need also.
I hope you understand my problem. Please give me a suggetion, it will be fine if i do sex with her?
Hello Anjali Aunty, I have heard you give so many advices to so many guys here and i really felt like chatting to you, well before i say anything else let me be honest with you, i m a handicap guy i cannot walk i m on a whelchair and i was hoping if we could be online friends? And the problem i m facing since past 2 months is that i m unable to have complete erection as i used to and i dont know what to do? Is this because of too much masterbation? Well i masterbate only 2 or 3 times a day, and please Anjali aunty i hope you send me an email soon and be friends with me online and sometimes by reading your advices turn me on coz i like your frankness and openess please write to me soon. bye take care
hi Dear Anjali,
u doin the great job.i have 2 problems. my 1st prob is that i do sex daily with my girlfriend from last 2 years. now her vegina has become loose and she has become an aunty type(loose vegina). how can she become a girl back.
my 2nd problem is that some time i get too much excited that i bite her vegina. even try to tore it. please tell me is it normal?
please reply as early as possible
Hai anjali! I like your answers very much. My wife is having a sister who is married and we both the couples are very close. we share adult jokes, some times we had sex on same bed. In this matter my sister-in-law is very active. Me and her husband has strong desire for sharing our wives. How can i make my wife agree for this? please give an idea.
i am married. i am very much interested in sex. but my prob is my wife is very conservative and after giving birth to a child she is not very much interested in sex.
i have tried my level best but due to her conservative stance, i am deprived of sex..i have induced her in all ways., but in vain..
now i fantacize about having sex …and my emotions are hard ..for now iam controlling my feelings by reading blogs,visiting websites..
suggest a solution..
hello anjaliji,
i am 16 years soon 17, i have started shagging since 5 years of age. it is my habit that i need to do shagging of my cock at night.also whenever no body is at home i alone start shagging. will continuously shagging for years harm me or my cock. will it have any side effect. what should i do to enjoy better shagging and sex alone.
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Hi Anjali.
I am 30 years old. I have questioned you earlier but didn’t get any reply. Whenever I find time, I love to read your answers. They are really interesting. Please give me your valuable suggetion as soon as possible.
I am 30 years old. I am married and my wife now pragnent. I have an widow mother-in-law who also live with us. We are only three member in our familly. My Mother in law who is 45+ years old take care of me because my wife does not feal well. Due to my wife is pragnent, since last two month I had no sex with my wife, I am very much faithfull to my wife. The problem is my mother in law is now trying to seduce me in many ways, and day by day it is increasing. She told me that she saw me to masurbate and she feels bad for me because i can’t do sex with my wife due to her pregnancy, and she is also going through the same situation because she is widow. I don’t want to say, but she also told me she saw my massive tools, and she praise about it many many times. She indirectly indicated that she want to have sex with me. Now i became very confused what to do? because in this side i have wife on the other side I have strongly physical need also.
I hope you understand my problem. Please give me a suggetion, it will be fine if i do sex with her?
Hi anjali…. I m reading ur answers from last one year…. n really that is nice that u r helping the people in such a kind way .. Any wayz… Anjali now a dayz i m passing from serious problem… that i masturbate every day n mostly 2 times in a day.. but now i m feeling that my stomach is contineously increasing, n my waist is also increasing….. So kindly Anjali plzzz tell me now what can i do… I shall be much thankfull to you….
heloo maam shape of my penis is not proper it get change due to mastrubation tell me hw can i make my penis in a proper shape
hi i want to know my stand every time , i never had done sex with any girl , i feel hestitation to girls then how can i sex with girls
Hi Anjali. I am 42 Yrs old married guy. I have a 22 yr old maid in my house. Very sexy. I am attracted towards her. She also gives smiling signals. But I am unable to understand. I dont wish to go wrong. Advise me how to judge her feelings. I am frustrated to get her in my arms, if she is willing.
hi aunty,i have a question for u
How to get rid of masturbation
hi anjali,’
i want to know that orgasm for female is must to be pregnant or not b cos my wife doesnt get an orgasm while intercourse iam using a durex liquid on my penis to easier insertation ok plz mail answer bye graet job keep it up
Hello mam,
I am 28 years old. I used to masterbate ofetn and now I feel my penis doesnt get full erection and its size is about 4 inch with erectioned. I feel ashame to say to anyone or consult a doctor. Please suggest some natural food to recover it.
hi anjali ,
i am 24 yr old.
i m very naughty ,
i hv hyper tension from last 2 month..
i hv take bp pills everyday.
plz sujjest me if how can i satisfy my gf..
and whether sex is safe for me?….
thncx in advance
i and my girl friend had sex …but i kept my penis near her pussy ..not exact in iam sure..after next day she tell like this ..i am getting ttoo much white…iam
going to be pregnent..is she right…tell me aunty…ajali..
Hi Anju
Its nice to read your suggestions which is helping all of us. Now my problem is I am married 6 years back now iam aged at 39. I have been facing lot of psychological problems and family problems due to this our regular sexual life is not that active. One side my wife likes to have romantic sex but she does not arouse me nor allow me to lick her pussy nor suck my pussy , but wants romance. Without which iam not aroused and finally she finishes the sex saying iam not good in romance and ends up mechanically. I tried to make her understand her role but never understands. Now a days due to this i have started erectile problems and does not last longer. Please help me out and suggest me to overcome erectile problems and how I can convince my wife to take active part.
hi anju,
i am 18 years & i am a ugly person ,not lucky….i have no frnds in colllege.nobody talks to me…i want to date some girl….i loved one girl and propose to her but she rejects and calls me anna….i need a good girl..pls help me.i want to satify my feelings..if u know any girls please give their contact details to my mail id…
hi anjali i am 17 years young boy is it good to do sex with auntis
if it is good plz send some angles to perform
Hi aunty,
I hven’t recivd my first mail’s answer.
I m a unlucky guy with smal penis size approximatly 4 inch and thin in erecting mode.
I m worriy about my future.
I m 21 yrs old.
Can i satisfy a girl like other big penis ?
Is woman satisfaction depends upon penis size ?
Give me techniqe how to satisfy a girl ?
Plz aunty clear my all doubt.
Thanks
Waiting for your help.
hi anjali,
i want to have sex with any girls. can u suggest me any girl .
give me girl fone no so that i can call him to have a sex.