Mr. D. says: Hello miss/madam Anjali…Thanks a lot for all your advices…Hearing advices from a woman’s point of view is much more better for a guy…You are of a great help. May god bless you mam…
So my problem: It’s about masturbating. I don’t masturbate by stroking my penis (meaning rubbing it up and down). I masturbate by putting the penis between the thighs. And then I apply a big pressure on my penis by pressing the penis well with the thighs while thinking of having sex…am I normal? Will it have some kind of side effect later when I will sleep with a girl?
Anjali says: Hi Mr. D. Many men and women think that what they do is not normal. A lot of time it is more normal than one might think. There are so many ways of masturbating that I couldn’t even list them here but just to give you an idea here are some of the things that men do to masturbate (and this is just what men I have known have told me):
• Put a plastic back into a sock, put some lotion or oil into it and then insert their penis and rub it up and down.
• Same thing but put the bag between two mattresses or cushions.
• Rub just the head.
• Food – use your imagination!
The bottom line is, who is to say what is normal and what is not. So enjoy yourself!
And no, it will not have any side effects when you are sleeping with a girl. The only type of masturbation that would concern me would be cutting off the circulation with rope or tape (and yes – I have heard of people doing that) which could potentially cut off nerve endings and reduce sensitivity.
Otherwise, have fun!