Mr. D. says: Hello miss/madam Anjali…Thanks a lot for all your advices…Hearing advices from a woman’s point of view is much more better for a guy…You are of a great help. May god bless you mam…
So my problem: It’s about masturbating. I don’t masturbate by stroking my penis (meaning rubbing it up and down). I masturbate by putting the penis between the thighs. And then I apply a big pressure on my penis by pressing the penis well with the thighs while thinking of having sex…am I normal? Will it have some kind of side effect later when I will sleep with a girl?
Anjali says: Hi Mr. D. Many men and women think that what they do is not normal. A lot of time it is more normal than one might think. There are so many ways of masturbating that I couldn’t even list them here but just to give you an idea here are some of the things that men do to masturbate (and this is just what men I have known have told me):
• Put a plastic back into a sock, put some lotion or oil into it and then insert their penis and rub it up and down.
• Same thing but put the bag between two mattresses or cushions.
• Rub just the head.
• Food – use your imagination!
The bottom line is, who is to say what is normal and what is not. So enjoy yourself!
And no, it will not have any side effects when you are sleeping with a girl. The only type of masturbation that would concern me would be cutting off the circulation with rope or tape (and yes – I have heard of people doing that) which could potentially cut off nerve endings and reduce sensitivity.
Otherwise, have fun!
dear anjali,
First thanks to ur nice job. I have girl firend. We had sex with ass, but i have big pennies. I cant entered my pennies into ass hole even using jelley and she is too feel pain. I also fear about ass hole beark? Is it possible or not? what can i do.
plzz do mention few more techniques to create a dummy pussy
Thanxs a lot for replying to me mam.. I’m feeling quite relieve now…
hi anjali,
i hope u reply for this and thanks in advance. i’m 21 from hyderabad.
usually i masturbate daily after seeing some porn stuff. i will release in just 2-3 mins. Now i’m very near to have sex with my girlfriend, but i’m afraid that can i hold it for more than that or not. is that the same having sex and masturbate… can i hold it for more time??
Hello miss/madam Anjali…Thanks a lot for all your advices…Hearing advices from a woman’s point of view is much more better for a guy…You are of a great help. May god bless you mam…
Madam I have a little confusion i want little advice from u plz help me
we happy married couple of 30 M n 28 F.my wife is so horny n sexy, we enjoy every thing in sex. In my wife i like sniffing her ass, licking and inseting tounge in her ass she also enjoy this, while doing this i feel her ass’s smell, her shit taste, even i taste her shit spot on her anus. fropm someday i have new idea, i.e. i want fill up her anus with milk then i want to drink it .
my problem is that there is nay harm in it ???
Hi regarding masturbation…
if u press penis between thighs very strongly, while masturbating such that circulation of semens stop, will that be harmul or ok…
Hello miss give me a kiss ha ha ha….hi Anjali i always reads your ans and i am very glad that you know the tips for masturbating…
please give me more tips and also tell me that is it any infection on my penies because my fore skin does not goes down and during normal position when i pull the fore skin down then it goes down and then i see there is formation of white skin…i am very tense please solve my problem…..i also feel shy……….
hello anjali,
how ru??? i want to ask u about my penis size its small like about 4inch…n i will be marring soon so i want to take ur help that how can i increas the size n till what size i can increase it that i can make my partner fully satisfied. i hope u will reply my question….bye
hai anjali.how are you.you are doing a fine for everyone really want to thanks. i have no girl friend but i have lot of sex feeling. i use to masturbate
when every i get to feel so pls kindly a suggestion to me. how to find a girl friend. thank you very much
Hi Anjali, how do u do. Hope you will do good as if u r doing a great job to the youngsters. Here is another youngster who needs your help. I have two questions.
1. My right chest size differs from left chest size like womens breast differ. Is there any problem for me having this type of chest. Am i normal guy. Will i be able to satisfy a girl.
2. I will masturbate. I heard that while masturbate, the bone around the penis will get weaker if we masturbate for many time. Once it get weaker then we cant do sex for a long time. Is that true?
Thanks Anjali, hope you will reply soon for my above questions. I am awaiting for your reply. If you gives me a solution i will be very happy. I am suffering from this for a long time.
hi anjali,
i am mahi iam 29 years old still unmarried i used to do masterstbate from many years but know i use to give gap for 2 or three days but when i touch some sexy aunts with intention to show that i want to sex with them i got my penis licked is there is any problem pls advice