Ask Anjali – How to have anal sex with a large penis

Muthu says:

Dear Anjali,

First thanks to your nice job. I have a girlfriend and we had sex in her ass, but i have a big penis. I cant enter my penis into her ass hole even using jelly and she feels a lot of pain. I also fear that her asshole may tear? Is that possible or not? What can we do to resolve this?

Anjali says:

Thank you for your warm compliments. You and your girlfriend aren’t alone in your issue regarding anal sex. The issue you two are having can be resolved though. What you need to do is to slowly stretch her asshole over a period of time to accommodate your large penis. What you need several different sized butt plugs. Starting with small to large. (As large as your penis)

When you and your girlfriend are getting ready to have sex, take some jelly and lube the smallest plug up really well. While you are flicking your tongue on her clit, getting her ready to cum from eating her out. Slowly slip the but plug into her ass. She will have the most intense orgasm that she has ever had. Slowly thrust the plug in and out of her ass, making her whimper and moan while she cums.

Keep playing with the plugs, move up to a different size when the smaller does not cause her pain for several weeks. You are slowly working your way up to your penis size. Soon, she will be able to take your penis up her ass without pain. I hope my advice will enable both of you lots of cum filled anal sex in the future!

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39 Responses to “Ask Anjali – How to have anal sex with a large penis”

  1. PROVER says:

    Hi Anjali,

    Firstly i wanna give u 5 cheers for helping people in their sex life and secondly I m not sure if u had read my query before or not… well I m a 21 yrs old normal (virgin) boy as u might have in ur neighborhood. Well my prob is I THINK i had a small Penis. I m a medical student but till now i havent come across with any nutrients that can be beneficial for urethral growth. My frnds recommend me to mastuburate but i want advice of the professional.Can u plz guide me to take appropriate nutrients which can be affective in my penis growth. Plz help me out wth it.

    Cheers big ears,
    Prover

  2. boy15 says:

    ye that will help. Masturbate using cow dung. it will grow. believe me..

  3. SSheikh says:

    HI. I am having sex since last 10-11 years but I am unable to understand that why my desire for having sex is increasing day by day. As I have done sex yet and after a while I will be having my penis in my hands for having sex again. The one with I m having sex is tired of my this routine as she says she cant satisfy me neither she can fulfill my desire of sex. Tell me what to do with should I go for an other Sex Partner. Or you will fulfill my desire yourself or through yours loved ones.

  4. rajiv says:

    hi anjali i have a problem that my cum is not enough to come ….and i m nt having a large pennis…..hw can i increase my pennis and cum

  5. Sunny says:

    Hi Anjali… I have been a great fan of your site for a long time. I am 24 and have a girl friend 23. Last month we had sex. I slightly rubbed by lubricated penis with cum on it on her pussy (only outside). I am afraid if she would be pregnant with this act? After this her periods were also delayed for a month. Please suggest…

  6. voot says:

    i wanna fuck all the girls in their right ass ;)

  7. rahul says:

    hey anjali nice to see that you help the ppl,but i have a problem that i am a guy and wanna try something in my ass so is it safe and what should i try in my ass.

  8. krish says:

    Dear, Anjali, i have a doupt in mind, i am married and got a child in 3 months. After delivery me and my wife did not have sex for the past 5 months.But last week when we try for sex my penis did not enter in to her vagina and it was not going and it started paining for both unusually. Pls clarify me. Thanks in advance.

  9. Roopan says:

    Dear, Anjali, i have a doupt in mind, i am married and got a child in 2 months. After delivery me and my wife did not have sex for the past 2 months.But few days back when we try for sex my penis did not enter in to her vagina and it was not opening, but still she in good mood. but it is not going inside and also it started paining for both unusually and also she had stomach pain too . Pls advice me. Thanks a lot .

  10. Yogi says:

    Hi
    dear Anjali aunty ,22 years guy here ,but still m virgine and i m exicted for havin sex ,will u plzz tell me how to impress girlzz for sex ?? i mean what should i do for this ?? As a guy i shake toooo….plzz tell me

  11. RK says:

    Hi! Anjali, I am 27 yrs. still virgin. I want to clear my doubts. pl. clarify.

    1. What is to be done if I want to increase my penis size and also tell what type of food, tablets i have to take.

    2. Everybody says that Girls have G Spot. Whether it will be like the alphabet “G”.

    Pl. send the answers simultaneously to my mail also rkforsex@gmail.com

  12. Rohit says:

    Dear Anjali,

    I hope my question will not be a shock to you.

    We are a well educated, affluent, very fit cpl in our 40s. I have been a ladies man all my life & have had many many beautiful women . However Since last few years I developed a fantasy of involving my wife in alternative lifestyle. It took a lot of time but my persistence paid & finally she agreed.

    Our first swap was with an Indian cpl from USA & it was very satisfying for both of us. We used seperate rooms & for 3 nights we had lots of fun. However after wards we developed sense of regret which was overcome after we discussed the issue in detail & also expressed our deep love for each other.

    We have met about six couples after that & unfortunately all the six men failed in bed with my wife. Mind you my wife is extremely beautiful, & heads turn when she walks in. I had lovely times with all the women & while I was at it for three to four hours their husbands used to be done with in 1/2 an hour.

    After these repeated failures by other men my wife has lost all the interest in swapping fun.

    How do I find genuine couples who can satisfy my wife & how do u think I should convince my wife to join in swapping again. Our sex life with each other is absolutely fantastic & it enhances more when we discuss about other couples.

    Kindly let me know. And yes do keep in touch , You seem to be a very interesting person.

    Love & Hugs
    Rohit.

  13. abhishek says:

    hiiiiiiii anjali, i am 18yrs.

    1. when i will be infront of any girl my penis will erect. for this problem what is the solution

  14. uday says:

    Hi Anjali,

    I love oral Sex very much and interested to try with you, what do you say? Also let me know your stats?

  15. jigs says:

    i am married 29 the problem is tooshort due to which i cannot enjoy the sex for a long time my penies erects immediately suggest me the natural excercise

  16. bolis says:

    hello….i am 18 years old male.i am very afraid of hiv…..bcoz recently i had sex and my condom was ok in durind the coures but i removed my condom with my hands then touched my penis(glans penis)..plz tell me i could have any std ?

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  18. swetank says:

    Want to thank you for your for the great work you are doing its really helpful reading all the replies to the questions the people ask and the straight forward answers you give its easier for people to understand this way about sex cause you reply like we think.Better than those conservative answers that are there elsewhere.Really appreciate your work keep it up.

    What are the harmful effects that might happen to me and my girlfriend when i perform oral sex on her? And also the other way round when she does it on me how will it affect me or her? And why is oral sex banned?

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  20. honey says:

    hi. aunty anjali. how r u? i hope ur fine and in good health? am fine too. aunty am regular reader. aunty am 26 yrs old am working in mnc. from younger days on wards am interested in fat ladies who having big breast and big ass. i used to admire them. and i used to take a lot.at this age i used to take. i donot findin teresting young women. i used to take it five or six times a day. my problem is where am working there is an women who is 45 yrs old we r friends and we use to go together to movies, and to the restorent. i feel that we r in love with each other. we cannot live a part. so am living with her. we used to have sex.my problem is tat i cannot live with out her. i cannot talk this to my parents.as they have search a girl. i cannot live without her plz help me .plz do not ignore it .

  21. HARI says:

    hi
    i am 25 years old . my mother is 40 and she is still busty . i normally do not lust on her . but during masturbating. i always errect more when thinking of her having sex with other men . i even get more dreams of her having sex with other men . while masturbating i am full pumped up but after i feel bad . i have tried many times even if i do not masturbate thinking about her . i still get her having sex with others in dreams. that too men who i hate only have sex with her . what to do to stop this happening

  22. pramod says:

    Hi Anjali.

    I am 25 years old.and my problem is where am working there is an women who is 27 and she is married but she most of the time tell us that after marriage life has become boring. She and her husband don’t talk much. When ever i see her yes i feel like she wants to tell some thing. now i am not sure she is interested in me. How do i find this out.

    Waiting for ur reply.
    Cheers.

  23. karunan says:

    dear madam,
    i got marry just month ago we having sex noramlly but i cannot make her real satisfaction because the timing is very low for me but she has to take more time to get the satisfaction so how can solve this prob i am really thanks to give u the answer,

  24. mani says:

    i have a small dick how to satisfy my gf

  25. nishania says:

    hi! sexy anjali

    hw can i make my penis large??

    its small

    tell hw can i make it big

  26. Madhusudhan.S says:

    Dear Anjali,

    I am a 21 year old. I have been masturbating for the last 5 yrs now. My penis appears a bit too tilted to the right side. For this reason i have been avoiding sex with my girlfriend, but i really wnt to have sex. Will this problem affect my sexual life in any possible way? And my penis is only 5 inches, how can i make it bigger?

  27. jani says:

    hi anunty anjali 1st i want to ask that wt is ur age if ur less then 40 then i want to have sex with u so u can tell me wt kind of pro i have ok i m 29 ok tell me

  28. sharma says:

    Please suggest jelly/ lube for anal sex, EASILY AVAILABLE IN INDIAN MARKET. I have read that water based lube should be used. Pl. suggest easily available water based lube for anal sex.

  29. sharma says:

    Pl. give reply to my email ID also.

  30. Shankar says:

    hi Aunty actually i want 2 sex with u now tell me how can ?

  31. TM says:

    Hi Anjali, I want to fuck u in ur butts,,Want to cum inside ur browny(ass hole), wanna lick ur pussy, ur ass hole, tongue fuck u.cum inside u. tit fuck u. plzz let me fuck u.choodne do mujhe tumhe

  32. arvind Suresh says:

    How to enlarge my pennis, it is too small says my wife, it is about 5″ inches only and I ejaculate within five strokes. I tried lot of medicine and concentration adivse and so on. I am 37 year old know got married three years back. She is 34 years.

  33. X Man says:

    Hi Anjali
    I am totally new to this forum.
    May i know few answers to my queries.
    Can i enlarge my penis?
    Is anal sex safe without condoms as i dont use with my girlfriends?
    I have heard that after some times your penis loses strength and erection if u continue to fuck ass holes?
    is it safe to lick ass holes as i am fond of?
    How can i increase my timings to fuck more? i can hardly stay for 2/3 mins?
    answer me on my private email if possible.
    thanks

  34. xxxxx says:

    hi anjali i have a doubt. i m frm chennai. pls clarify me.. me and ma frnd had a anal sex wit our boyfriend….. i m normal.. but ma frnd ass hole is been torn i think. wenever she get loo. its comin along with blood.. can u pls tell me wat can we do.. this is happening for past two months.. she’s been suffering frm that pain… she cant get satisfaction coz of that…

    P.S pls reply in ma mail… ASAP

  35. bujji says:

    hi u r doing a great job.please tell me disadvantages of masturbation.i do dis regularly.pz is it a bad habit.

  36. Omair says:

    Hi Anjali,

    How are you. I have a problem my penis is too big and my girl friend ass hole is to small and tight and I unable to put in my penis in my girl friend ass and im frustrated why im unable to put in the penis in my girl friend ass.

    Please tell me simplest techniques ASAP

  37. raja says:

    anjli ji sb madr chod hai in ke bahkave me mat aana aur aapp muj se hi chudna””’
    tumhar”””kala lund

  38. vaibhav says:

    hi anjali, how to enlarge my penis tis only 5 inch and my age 26

  39. Johnny says:

    Hi ma. Last 5 months , i am fond of gay sex. I want to lick my penis by some one and to have penis in my ass hole. My gay friend is also fond of it. Is it safe . Or not safe. Suggest me. Badly waiting 4 your reply.

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