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Apacheking asks:
Hi Anjali Aunty,
I am a 26 year old single guy. I have been going around with a girl for the last 3 years. My problem is that now my parents are expecting me to get married to her. They do not have any problem with my girlfriend but I have a problem. I am not really happy with her. I pity her more because she is an orphan and has had a difficult life but she is very stubborn and does not even want to try to change things that I would want her to change. Simple things like accompanying me when I go to my friend’s place or eating at my favourite restaurant etc. but she is very happy with me cause I agree with her almost all the time because I don’t want to hurt her.
But now I am thinking whether I want to live the rest of life like this and I am confused. Please suggest me.
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Sachu Asks:
Hi Anjali Aunty,
I am a 25 year old girl who fell in love with my team leader though he wasn’t aware of it till i told him. He wasn’t my team leader anymore when I revealed my love to him. He refused but I only wanted his friendship.
Though he didn’t respond well initially, we became closer. We shared everything between us and had no secrets. We used to talk for 3 to 4 hours on the phone daily and soon this intimacy lead to having sex talk over the phone. He was always against marriage as he felt that his family was more important to him than anything else. Now I am about to get engaged next month. I want to continue this relationship without the sex element. I love him very much and want to be his friend (only friend) forever.
But he says that this might not workout. I know that he cares for me and off late he too likes me. I feel its impossible to live without his friendship. Please advise what to do?
Regards, Sachu.
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Holy Ghost Asks:
Hi Anjali Aunty,
My name is Sachin and I am 20 years old. The problem is that I live with my grandparents as my mother passed away and my father left me alone. My grandma is 55 and she is really an open minded and good person. The problem here is when ever she takes bath, she doesn’t close the door. My grandpa would be out of home the time she takes bath.
I don’t have any dirty fantasies like incest (I hate it). I respect her very well. She even changes her clothes in-front of me and sometimes before taking a bath, she washes clothes in the back of my house. At the time of washing also she doesn’t wear anything. She will be totally naked but one day my friends were at home and my grandma was in the back washing clothes. The back is totally covered. No one can see from anywhere but the back door was open and she was at the other side washing clothes.
My friends didn’t go back because she was there. I tried to tell her to close the door but she tells me that she is very comfortable with the open door. She says it’s been habit for her.I don’t know what to tell her. If she is not comfortable with my suggestion fine I don’t have a problem but I don’t want to get insulted by my friends.
Well you know what I am talking about. So please give me suggestions to get my mind proper. I am little upset.
Regards.
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On our regular feature -
Confused Ashique Asks: TO FUCK OR NOT TO FUCK – THAT IS THE QUESTION!
Hi guys, hi Anjali aunty.
How are you? Remember me? I posted a question on your FSIblog.com once asking whether I should dump my girlfrnd or not? And you replied it with a nice suggestion. Well I am happy that we have not broken-up since then and our 6 years love journey is going on a very happy and right track.
Well, today I am here to ask you one more question in which I am again confused. Actually in our sex life, I am really satisfied by my girl, but till now we have only done oral sex and not intercourse. As I read everyday in your blog, that perhaps 95% of the boys who have visited your blog have fucked their girlfriends once or more, but in my 6 years of love life, I haven’t had till now.
My confusion is that reading all that stuff on your blog, I sometimes get aroused and I wanted to fuck my girlfriend but when I think about our love and listen to my heart, I always feel as if it would not be right to fuck her before marriage. I have discussed this issue with my girlfriend and she said smilingly whatever I decide she is ready for. She says she is also confused about this issue that if she should be fucked before or after marriage as sometimes she also gets kinky with me.
If I fuck her before marriage, then also she is fine and if after then also she has no complains. As she says that she is totally mine and I can do whatever I like to do with her. She is happy with whatever I decide but my heart sometimes says that I should not fuck her before marriage as it would not be right and somewhere my pure love will not be pure anymore after that and sometimes when I get exited, then I feel like fucking her hard before marriage (using condoms) as sooner or later we will be married to each other. So why I should wait for my first night and rather not enjoy the happy moments starting now. I also feel that sexual intercourse after marriage will be exiting and interesting as it will add something new to our sexual relationship as we have already seen and felt each other naked and the only thing left between us is intercourse and trying various tricks and poses with each other.
So if I fuck her now then there will be nothing extra I will get in my first night or after marriage. I also think that if I fuck her now then I will fuck her everyday as the gates will be open for me. As you know HOW a MAN THINKS WHEN HE GETS FREE ACCESS and if by-chance anything goes wrong and unluckily if we can’t be together due to our family or any other reason then it will not be good for my girlfriend as it will be hard for her to forget me and those sweet moments of our life and also its bad for her future life. But seeing her sometimes, I really wanted to fuck her as she has really become very hot and sexy these days because of the warmth and charm of my love. I always try my level best to keep her happy and smiling and due to this she is very happy from inside which reflects on her face.
I really love her (writing this post also, I couldn’t stop myself from thinking about her) So what to do? I don’t know and I ask you all TECHNICAL ENGINEERS (of sex, relationship and love) to suggest me the right thing to do. Waiting for your replies and ya… one more thing “LOVE YOU SWEET and SEXY ANJALY AUNTY :-*
Regards.
Munna Asks:
Hello Anjali Aunty,
I am going through a rough marriage and below is what I think are the reasons and many are my own fault. I have tried rigorous attempts to get out of this worse habit but I have not been completely successful yet.
I am looking for various perspectives to look at this situation. Thanks.
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Hi Anjali Aunty,
I have been reading your advices for various people on various incidents. But I never dreamt that I would one day post you with my problem. I am completely lost and broken down thinking about my issue. Please help me with the best of your advices.
I have a girlfriend and we have been in a relation for almost 5 years now. Initially I never had sex with her thinking we have to be an ideal couple. But 18 months back I got an opportunity to go to US on my project work. Before going I turned kinky and asked my girlfriend for some sex which she accepted without saying no. We had it for 8 times in 12 days.
After going to US, I used to chat with her and she used to skip sex topics saying she would be interested if I was beside her. Before leaving to US I knew a guy in her office who used to flirt with her a lot. When I was gone she grew very close to him. Many times she used to tell me that they have been hanging out to movies and restaurants all alone. But I never stopped her because I believed in her. She grew so close to him that she starting hanging up my call when he calls. I also observed that she started giving him a lot of priority than she does to me or even her parents.
When I asked her about that she just said he’s her best friend and grew very angry on me. With sources in her office, I came to know that they have turned very close and rumours of having a sexual affair were prevailing. Now I am back and I see that her figure has changed a lot. She is no more that hot as she used to be. Her firm breasts have turned a lot saggy and she has a layer of fat on her belly and ass. I even found a scar on her boob which she says is because of a pin in her blouse. But I feel its a nail mark. There was no change in her diet or regular activities and she says she rarely masturbated. Is the change in her body stats because she has been sleeping with him? Does a girl’s body really shape out after having sex regularly? I don’t want to ask her directly because if what I am thinking is wrong then I would surely miss her.
How do I get to know what happened when I was gone? I love her a lot and brought lots of gifts for her from US. But, I also don’t want to get along with a girl who cheated on me. Please help me how I can solve this problem out.
Pawan says:
Dear Anjali Aunty,
I have been a new member of this blog and is quite impressed with the way you are spreading education to the youngsters about sex. The best part of your education is that you maintain a balance between the fun in life and the social and moral values. My concern starts here-
I am a 28 years old guy and I have a 24 years old sister. We are from Delhi and I am currently located in Laddakh on my duty. My sister got an arranged marriage last year. Her hubby is in the hotel industry and is currently located in Kuwait. Just within three months of his marriage he moved to Kuwait to join his job.
My sister used to be very juvenile and happy person before marriage. But for last few months, we found her to be very lazy and dull. My parents suggested me to take her to Laddakh for a climate change that can refresh her. During her stay here, she has developed a physical intimacy with one of my senior officers who is around 35 years old and is living alone in the same house.
I have seen a drastic mood swing and she is living very happily. She is going to stay here for few more months. I am confused whether I should let her spend time with him or should I stop her. I discussed it with my girlfriend and she said my sister was being lazy and dull because of no sex for a long time and she is feeling happy now because of getting her sexual needs fulfilled. She is suggesting me to let her have sex with him for few months as long as she is here. That guy is a very sincere officer and a decent guy and I don’t feel any harm from his side but I would still need your suggestion.
Anjali Aunty says:
Hi Pawan,
This is one of those situations, where I am terribly conflicted between advising what is right and what is practical. In the present scenario, everything seems to be working perfectly for all the characters involved at the moment.
Your brother-n-law is happy in his land of bliss. He may hypothetically (I am not implying) be having some distant fun of his own with those fair Arabic maidens.
Your sister has come out of depression and seems to be perfectly happy at present. Your very “decent” senior officer is lonely in Ladakh and so it suits his situation perfectly. Its difficult to stay unromantic in a place as beautiful as Ladakh.
Even your girlfriend is ok with this – only you are left in doubt.
My advise would be to let things be as they are at the moment. However it is important for your sister to understand (or maybe it for you to make her understand) that the present scenario is only a vacation. She must not get too used to it. She must realise that at one point she has to return to normal life without regrets or grudges or worse (stds/unplanned pregnancies)…
Dibya says:
Dear Miss Anjali,
I am in a very bad situation and I found your website on the internet. I live in Chandigarh with my sister for the last 2 years and I am student. My sister is studying and living in Chandigarh for 5 years. Last month a policeman caught her at night when she was with her classmate and he tortured her and threatened to file a case against.
He adjusted that he will come to our home in night to ask for a bribe or otherwise he will charge a case. We both live alone in sector 20 A in a room and we were afraid. So we called a local friend from Chandigarh in night because we were afraid. At night the policeman called my sister’s mobile and came home. He came with one another policeman and they started teasing us. He said if we don't have sex with him he will file a charge against us. I told him I am only 18 years old and I just came from Uttaranchal but they insisted and our other friend who was from Chandigarh too also cried a lot, but they made all of us cry a lot and had sex with all of us, even the girl from Chandigarh…
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