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How to Fuck a Girl Blindfolded – An AskAnjali Tutorial

Sunday, July 11th, 2010

This one is special! It’s time to make your sex life a little more exciting and interesting with the use of blindfolds. I am not one who is into BDSM but I have tried this and it blew my mind. Couples tend to get bored with their relationship when the bedroom sessions become predictable. Our emotional, intellectual and sexual boredom can leave partners feeling like they’re lacking something important in the relationship. That said, add a little earthquake to your routinely balanced lives with blindfolds.

It’s not necessary to go out of your way to purchase special red velvety blindfolds like they do in movies. Instead, you can find things around the house like your ties, her scarves or anything else that can cover your eyes (and hers) adequately.

BLINDED BY FOOD

After dinner is served and the table is set, take out two blindfolds and tie them around each other’s eyes. After that, proceed with dinner as usual. Be aware that eating may be a little more difficult since your eyesight will no longer help you find the way to that forkful of paneer. As you try to feed her and she tries to feed you, you will find that you must depend on your other senses to lead the way. The point of the blindfolds is to feel your way through to each other and concentrate on the smell and taste of whatever is tantalising your palate.

After dinner, which for most couples is a memorable experience in and of itself, lead each other to the bedroom — leaving the blindfolds on, of course. You will need to rely on your partner for help. Consider this to be a confidence-building exercise, as well as a sensual one.

THE BLIND LEADING THE BLIND

Once in the bedroom, begin touching and feeling each other. Try massaging each other’s body parts. Considering that you’re blindfolded, I think inhibitions will diminish somewhat. Rub each other’s hands, toes, thighs, genitals, lips, and whatever other parts arouse you and her.

Foreplay minus eyesight can heighten touch and sound. You can even imagine that she’s someone else, if for one night. Undress each other slowly and begin inhaling, tasting, licking, feeling, and rubbing each other. Finding your way to her vagina is so exciting when you’re forced to use your other senses to get there.

Her excitement will be so intense that she’ll be more than willing to reciprocate every favour you furnish her with. Focus on your other senses because that’s the whole point of this experiment.

ONE AT A TIME…

ARE YOU THE BLIND KIND?…

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AskAnjali – How To Deal With Women Who Never Leave You Alone in Peace?

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

High maintenance women as they are called can be the most frustrating aspect of a man’s romantic life. Fortunately, relationship sob-jantas like me have devised a way to sort out which women are overly needy and which ones have their heads on straight. Based on the kinds of relationships we have with our parents and our past romantic partners, we develop a way of relating to significant others in a way that scientists call “attachment style.” Understanding the psychology of needy women and knowing your woman’s attachment style can reveal a lot about her psychological issues and help you determine whether or not she’s worth going out with.

Four types of attachment styles

When it comes to attachment styles, there are two dimensions: fear of being abandoned and avoidance of intimacy. A person can be low or high in either of these dimensions, which results in four different attachment styles: assured, needy, distant, and scared. Dating a woman with a needy attachment style can be an emotional nightmare which I am sure many of you have experienced. I am here to help you avoid a dating disaster by telling if you’re involved with a needy woman, what’s going on in her head, and how to cope with it.

1 – The assured girlfriend: Low fear of being abandoned + low avoidance of intimacy.

Ultimately, an assured woman is the one with whom you’ll have the best long-term relationship. This type of woman has a low fear of being abandoned and doesn’t avoid closeness. In other words, she doesn’t worry that you’re going to leave her and she finds it easy to share herself emotionally with people in general because she’s not afraid that others won’t accept her. She’s also comfortable depending on you and in turn, having you depend on her. When you tell an assured woman that you’re planning a guys’ night out, for example, she tells you to go and have fun. She trusts you and knows that you’re coming home to her.

2 – The needy girlfriend: High fear of being abandoned + low avoidance of intimacy.

3 - The distant girlfriend: Low fear of being abandoned + high avoidance of intimacy.

4 – The scared girlfriend: High fear of being abandoned + high avoidance of intimacy.

If you realise you’re dating a needy woman, the bad news is that the “problems” in your relationship are more a product of what’s going on in her head than in reality. The good news is that you now have the psychological tools to start dealing with her effectively. As I always tell you guys, dig deeper into her :) Have a great day.

-Anjali

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AskAnjali: I fucked a married office babe and now she is in love – how do I get out?

Saturday, July 3rd, 2010

Hi Anjali Aunty,

I am 26 year old single guy. I am in a quite strange situation. There is this colleague of mine. She is two years elder to me, very attractive, with lively features and a perfect figure. I can say she is simply one lady any boy can dream to be his wife. She is also married and got a kid. She was a good friend to me and my other colleagues. Our good friendship went on till one year. This took a turn some months ago, when at an unexpected event, our relationship turned physical. The situation was different and I swear it was never my intention nor hers. But temporary temptation at that point of time was out of our control.

Since that happened, I maintained some distance with her for a month. But later, I too thought it is fine since she too does not have a problem with it. We met physically 6 times after that. My parents were looking for alliances and I mentioned to her about one which almost got fixed. She exploded after hearing the matter. It seems she is in love with me now and she wants to marry me. I tried to convince her that it was never my intention. She says it was not her intention either but now she is in love with me and cannot live without me. Because of it they are having fights at their home too. She also warned that it doesn’t matter if I marry her or not, she will anyways be separated with her husband.

A couple of times, she also warned of suicide if I don’t agree to marry her. My problem is that I never had this intention. To be frank, my inner evil to enjoy somebody else’s wife dominated my common sense at that time. Common sense is now taking on me. In my social life, there is no single person in my life. Will my family, friends or relatives accept my marriage with a lady with a kid? I am now worried about these complications. No doubt if she had not been married and with a kid, she would have been the best ever choice I could get for a wife. But at this situation, I am lost.

Can you please suggest a what way out?

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AskAnjali: I made am MMS of my mother and masturbated watching it. Is it WRONG?

Friday, July 2nd, 2010

Dear Anjali Aunty,

I want to make a confession.

I took a video of my mother while she was changing her clothes, through a hidden camera. I masturbated watching that video again and again despite feeling guilty every time.

I am feeling very uneasy and ashamed now and thinking of suicide. Tell me what to do?

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Askanjali: How do I fuck the aunty I see in the bus everyday?

Thursday, July 1st, 2010

Dear Anjali Aunty,

I am a young unmarried guy. There is an aunty whom I don’t personally but I meet her in a bus everyday. I mean I see her. She is a good lady of 35 or 40 years perhaps. The first time I saw her, she was in the same bus we travel in. We see each other everyday. Most of days, she is near me. I will be sitting and she will be standing side by.

It is a crowded journey every day. The best thing is that we see each other everyday in the morning and evening. She hasn’t talked to me but she smiles at me sometimes. Many a times, when both of us are standing in the crowded bus, she prefers to stand near me. I haven’t yet tried groping any woman in a bus. This lady has fallen on many times when the bus applies brakes. In that way, we have touched each other many times.

Now I am in a doubt. Is she feeling safe because I don’t do any harm to her intentionally or should I take it as a positive sign from her? Nowadays I feel as if she means, “come on, you are free to touch” because I touch her every time when the bus brakes. She is the first lady in the world who rises my sexual intentions. I am very much attracted to her. Many a times, when I sit and she stands nearby, her pallu gets off and I get to see her navel for 20 minutes or so at a go. She knows that I can see her but till now, she hasn’t even once tried to correct her navel.

Should I proceed further? If yes, then how do I do it? I don’t like groping girls or aunties as guys do but I feel there is nothing wrong when someone actually wants it. In that condition, how do I approach her?

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Paul Avril – Father of Modern Porn – The Last Batch

Wednesday, June 30th, 2010

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Paul Avril – Father of Modern Porn – Collection 3

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

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Paul Avril – Father of Modern Porn – Collection 2

Monday, June 28th, 2010

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5 Girls Tell You How They Want to be Fucked – An AA Exclusive Interview

Sunday, June 27th, 2010

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I think I will surprise you with this one today. After attending a function at my hometown the other day, I got talking to a group of my girl friends. From what they told me, I thought some men are clueless when it comes to cunnilingus (that means giving oral sex to a woman – for you 5 point someones) while others have really mastered their oral skills :) . So what makes some men so good at it and what makes others so terrible? I tried to find out so that you can make your girl’s head spin.

Here are the interviewees (some names have been changed on request. And don’t ask me about the picture. Keep guessing ;) ). A huge thanks to them for helping me out. You go girls! :)

Name Age Occupation Relationship status
Jennifer 20 College student Dating
Priyanka 27 Ad Film Maker Single
Tanushree 35 Business Executive Engaged
Ahmereen 28 Housewife Married

Anjali: Hi ladies. Let’s get right down to business, shall we? How important is it for your er… lover to be good at oral sex?

Jennifer: Well, considering that I go down on my boyfriend according to his wishes, it’s only fair for him to reciprocate.

Priyanka: It’s definitely a big plus.

Tanushree: Well excuse me but I don’t like performing oral sex on men, so I don’t really expect it. Besides, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Ahmereen: My hubby never quite got the hang of it (laughs) but I married him anyway.

Anjali: I see we have some very different opinions on the subject. Good. So, would you consider orgasms from oral stimulation more intense or satisfying than orgasms from you know, normal sex.

Jennifer: I wouldn’t say that. For me both can be equally intense and satisfying. But an orgasm from cunnilingus and simultaneous fingering is the ultimate (smiles).

Priyanka: I agree that both are good. The only difference for me is that, if done right, oral sex practically guarantees that I orgasm, whereas I have yet to be with a man who can get me to reach that point on a regular basis with intercourse alone.

Tanushree: Anju you asked us to be honest, so I might as well just come right out and say it; I don’t think I’ve ever had an orgasm.

Ahmereen: Are you serious? Sorry, I just can’t believe it. I would say that my orgasms from intercourse tend to be more earth-shattering than those from oral sex.

Anjali: Alright, can you describe what you like to be done on you?

Jennifer: Umm, I love it when my boyfriend starts by French kissing and lightly sucking my clitoris and follows it up with some more aggressive tongue and lip action. Once I’m really horny, he brings his fingers in on the action. I have to say he is good.

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Which is hotter – Ancient Indian or European Erotica?

Saturday, June 26th, 2010

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