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Preti : I am a married woman. And recently we have celebrated our second anniversary. We were separate for last 1.5 yrs due to his office work. He is a person who used to roam a lot. But when we meet after so long days we used to have sex that to twice a day. We used to enjoy for 45 min to 1 hour. For the last six months we have been living together but he is not having that interest in sex now. He always feels tired n sleeps in the night. Or even if he has interest when he puts his cock into my wet pussy he cums out so fast. Why is that so? Has he lost interest in me or does he have any problem?

Anjali Aunty : Dear Preti, the behaviour of your husband is a little suspicious. It’s only been two years for your marriage and already he has lost interest in you. By what you have mentioned above, you have hardly spent any quality time with him because of which he has begun acting this way. Also since he has been on tour a long time, I have a feeling that he might be seeing other women also.  But I can’t be too sure of that and it’s something that you will have to find out on your own.

All I can do is help you rekindle some passion in your relationship. What you need to do is make him comfortable when he gets back home from work. He might genuinely be tired and hence may not want to have sex. You need to talk to him, allowing him to relax. When you’ll get to bed, give him a nice sensuous massage, undressing him along the way. Lay him down on the bed and get on top of him. Use this riding position so that he can relax and see your boobs jump while you fuck his hardening cock! He will definitely love this and it’ll be a good stress buster for him too. I’m sure with some extra effort you can get him to normal again. Be nice and understand his needs well. You could always read about the Start-Stop technique and explain it to him – so that he doesn’t ejaculate fast, leaving your pussy wet and wanting more.

What you need to do is talk to him – get it all out in the open. Only once you have talked about your issues will you be bale to enjoy great and horny sex with your husband!

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ASIF : Hello Anjali Aunty. I am ASIF from Lahore, Pakistan. I study all the comments and advise very carefully and your own personal experiences and I really appreciate that you give proper sex advices. Please see below i have few questions which I am sure is very common in other young guys and it will help for others as well.

1. I am 30 years unmarried and till now I had done a lot of masturbation from childhood till now. Will this have an effect on my sperm quality??
2. In Pakistani society we still cannot have sex openly and too much restrictions now when I talk with any girl on phone for sex topic a white fluid start coming from penis this fluid is not milky like CUM but crystal-white like drinking water. I want to know what this is. Is this good or some kind of sexual weakness?
3. My ejaculation is within 2 or 3 minutes while masturbation. Is this is normal????
4. I have done some exercise and now when I am near to CUM I can stop my CUM inside by tightening the muscles just like we stop urine. Is this is good or bad for health.
5. My CUM is almost a medium tea spoon i mean not too much is this is ok. Or what you think to increase CUM quantity????

Please answer these questions – I will be very thankful to you. Thank you so much!

Anjali Aunty : Dear Asif, I’ll be more than glad to answer your questions. What you have asked is always on the minds of so many men but they are always too shy or scared to ask. I’m sure they will be very happy to know these answers of mine – all thanks to you!

1.  Don’t worry – your scrotum, or balls produce enough sperms everyday to last a lifetime. Even though you might be masturbating regularly, you will not see a sizable reduction in your ejaculation. But don’t make it a habit – masturbate only when necessary – otherwise you will lose interest after a while.
2.  That white fluid is called pre-cum. It is the clear lubricating fluid that is issued from a man’s penis when he is aroused.  It is absolutely normal and is not any kind of sexual weakness of problem.
3. You need to control your ejaculation for much longer. With masturbation, guys usually tend to ejaculate fast… but then they carry this habit forward to sex and become premature ejaculators – and women will not like that all. You need to practice the Start-Stop technique since once you start having sex, you’ll need to fuck the pussy for atleast twenty minutes (that’s the minimum I personally want – anything more is a bonus)
4.  What you are explaining here is similar to the Start-Stop technique I mentioned earlier. You need not do it all the time, since it might cause pain sometimes.
5. The amount of CUM that you release is perfectly normal. It will be adequate to make your wife pregnant – but till then, it will surely be enough for your girlfriend to drink when you CUM directly into her mouth.

I hope I have managed to answer all your queries. I hope you can now enjoy some good fucking,  get those phone sex girls to persoannly come and fuck your hard cock. Bye.

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