Ask Anjali: How can I find satisfaction?
Sunday, August 31st, 2008Kavitha says: Hi Aunty. I am a 21 year old female and I am interested in sex a lot. Can you please advise me the ways of attracting boys for sex? I look hot and sexy and I have already had sex 9 times with 9 different guys and still I am not satisfied. How much do I need to have sex to be satisfied? I just don’t like to do sex with the same guy the second time. I always love guys to suck my pussy. The question is how can I be satisfied?
Anjali says: You are at such an exciting time of your sexuality and in this day and age you can be the sexual being that you are. I’m so thrilled for you. I think your real question is about sexual satisfaction so I am going to focus on that.
Sexual satisfaction is something that can be hard to figure out with a partner if you are only with them one time. And especially if you do not know how to please yourself. So my fist advice would be to learn how to pleasure yourself. When you learn to give yourself a good orgasm (using fingers or toys) you will have better sex with boys. Learning to give myself an orgasm was not an easy thing and I used to do it a lot. But I’ll tell you a secret – find your clit. It is right at the top of your genitals and is like a little hard button. When you find it you’ll know because it will feel so good! Once I found mine I couldn’t keep my hands away from it.
You can continue to have sex with one boy only once (just play safe – use condoms!) but if you develop a regular relationship with one boy – even just for sex – you will find that he will get better at pleasing you and you will be more sexually satisfied.
Have fun with your sexual discovery Kavitha!
