Having a family holiday in Greece. But Paparazzis are everywhere.

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So many people have had a handjob thinking of Kim's Playboy pictures. 

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You think Trees dont have sex? See the pictures below and decide!!

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Ma' am Can I help you? I can see where the problem lies ....

Family Photo...I was just getting dressed. 

Lots of hot Air......not exactly what you thought!

On your Heart....I too take oath!

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                      Have you seen my car keys, Dear? 

                                  No "wet" Dreams

                                DO NOT DISTURB. Busy at work.

                       Not a Happy Reminder on your Wedding Day

                                      Look up and Smile, Please!

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Is your Wife or Girlfriend faking an Orgasm?

Many men have asked themselves this question. An orgasm is evident when a woman moans, screams with passion, scratches your back or wants to bite off your ear. Have you heard these lovely words from your partner “I am coming”, but still wondered if this was genuine or fake?

Well, you will first need to know what is a real female orgasm. Unlike a male orgasm, where there are visible signs of climax, there may be none in the case of a woman. In a male the penis is visibly hardened, can be stroked and sucked and finally leads to ejaculation of semen. In a woman there are no visible, external indications.

There are a few signs of arousal that a man can look out for in a woman  : her face may be flushed, eyeball s may become narrow and her breathing may increase. Her moaning and panting will also increase which is a sign that she is ready to climax or have an orgasm.  Women unlike men can have a series of orgasms within a short span of time. When this happens, the vaginal and uterine muscles contract, gripping the penis. The woman may go limp and have shuddering movements. The heartbeat also increases. She will have a dazed look and her eyes may become glassy.

We now come to the part that you have been waiting for. How do you tell a real and fake orgasm?

If a woman claims that she is able to orgasm every time, she has intercourse, then you can be reasonably sure that she is faking it. Few, if any women will reach an orgasm every time she has sex. The duration and intensity should also be different. While some women may be able to “come” without effort, the majority need a specific request to be met. It could be a favourite position or some rhythm etc. If a woman orgasms as soon as you begin to have foreplay, then she could be faking it. It is possible though that she may have been excited by the thought. Women need 10 – 15 minutes to get excited.

There should be some physical signs of excitement such as rapid breathing, or increased heart beat. Look for signs of acting. Is she moaning even when you have stopped stroking?  Does she leap out of bed as soon as she orgasms? These could be signs of faking.

While the above may show a woman’s dishonesty, you will need to analyze her reasons for resorting to faking orgasms.

It may be a reflection on you. You do not know how to bring her to orgasm, but she does not want to say it. She may not be in the mood for sex and may want to get rid of you. You may be hurting her, or she is so tired that she wants to go to sleep. She may never have had an orgasm so does not know what to show. She may have seen porn and observed that, that is what is expected of the woman.

If you are convinced that your woman is faking it, how do you tackle the situation? You could be blunt and ask her outright, which would lead to her getting defensive and having a royal fight with you, or you could actually get her to orgasm. 75% of women do not orgasm with intercourse and require clitoral stimulation. You could ask her to use a vibrator, with or without your presence to experience an orgasm. It takes two to clap so ensure that you are putting in an equal effort.         

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They say Men come from Mars and Women from Venus. See these pictures and you decide. Have you faced a situation like this?!

Did you see the Forest in the background? You are still searching?

Personality lies in the eyes of the beholder.

Life is full of distractions!

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When you must see the Gynaecologist or Sexologist

There are times when a woman or couple, need to see the gynaecologist. Let us see some of the situations when medical intervention is required.

1. When your Spouse or girlfriend is nervous or feels guilty about sexual intercourse.

Many women believe that sex is dirty and this myth is reinforced by upbringing in some societies. These women will resist penetration as they have never experienced sex. Many movies depict sex as a gory ordeal which involves resisting a man’s advances and turning her head the other way. A woman’s friends may also describe the bleeding and pain that she had to bear on her first night which reinforces the wrong belief. The pain however may be real due to a medical condition which may require measures like lubrication. There may also be the psychological feeling that the vaginal opening is too small to take a man’s penis. How many women have seen their vaginas using a mirror?

2. He climaxes before she does.

Many women do not even know the concept of orgasm. She believes that it is her duty to please the man and she concentrates on giving him pleasure. Thus the man reaches a climax and the woman is left unsatisfied. She is not willing to reveal her needs to her partner. It could be a case of frigidity in a woman, but not always so. Generally the man is to blame, either due to insufficient foreplay or repeated premature ejaculation which would require the man to consult a sexologist or urologist. Inability to sustain an erection could also point to hypertension, or more commonly, diabetes.

3.  The woman is not a virgin.

This fact by itself may not require a visit to the doctor. But, where the man is expecting his partner to bleed on the first night, then the discovery that this is not so, is sufficient to create tension in the relationship.   The gynaecologist or sexologist, can help to reassure the partners that the hymen can tear prior to sexual intercourse due to vigorous physical activity. There is also the medical case of a tough hymen, which doesn’t allow penetration. This can be rectified with an artificial hymenectomy, a surgery that involves creating a slit in the hymen’s fibrous tissue.

4. Women may bleed after intercourse.

 Women in their late thirties may experience post-coital bleeding or spotting. Most women tend to ignore such bleeding. However one must immediately consult a  gynecologist who will probably arrange for a pap smear test. This is done to rule out cervical erosion or cervical cancer. Repeated bleeding or spotting is the most common symptom of cervical cancer, but many women think it is early or untimely menstruation. Aggressive sexual intercourse is also wrongly considered a reason for such bleeding.

5. Complaints of itching or vaginal dryness should not be ignored.

A burning or itching sensation, dryness or abnormal discharge must be looked into. Discharge that has a curd-like consistency could indicate a Candida fungal infection, while a grey-white  or any colour that is different from the regular watery discharge could point to other infections or Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Hepatitis-B and HIV are common STDs, but the symptoms could be dry cough and common cold. Herpes, on the other hand, causes lesions or boils in the genital area. Vaginal dryness, could be a result of reduced estrogen levels and less fluid secretion by the cervical glands after menopause. Lubricants can help reduce pain during sex. A combination of some or all these factors — persistent fever, abnormal discharge, genital wounds that fail to heal, multiple follicles, pelvic inflammation — call for medical intervention.

6.  Abnormal or kinky sex.

Often on this Site we read about fears of partners smelling arm-pits or massaging their partners and wondering what their partners would think of them.   Any sexual act practiced by consenting adults cannot, and should not, be considered abnormal. There are cases where one partner considers oral or anal sex an anomaly, while the other enjoys the experience. The dislike could be a result of a past traumatic experience, of societal conditioning, or a fear that it could be harmful. Talking to a doctor can help lift the psychological, and eventually physical barrier.