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AskAnjali: Help me to chose between my girlfriend and wife!

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Hello Anjali aunty,


I am married male, 5 years before I got married and my marriage life was full of fight with my wife. My wife used to become irritated very much and started to pick up fights on every issues. Slowly I got fed up of my wife and started to show interest on other girls.


I met one girl in 2008 and I became very close to her and finally I fell in love with her.  From the past 2 years I am having relationship with this girl and we also involved in sex.My wife is currently staying in another city because of her work, around 1 year ago my wife came to know about my girlfriend after seeing some videos of me with my girlfriend in my mobile. She started to cry and I felt very bad, since then I am not able to forgive myself.


But now my girlfriend has started hating my wife so much that she objects her mere presence around me. So in this rage she even slept with her ex-boyfriend. I felt cheated so much that I abused her so much but then I though that I too was cheating my wife for the past 2 years. Later my girlfriend begged me for forgiveness and told that she wants to marry me. I too love my girlfriend a lot and at the same time I love my wife who still wants to be with me.


I am  confused a lot and both these women are just waiting for my answer and I just can't afford to be away from anyone of them.


Please tell me what should I do?



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AskAnjali: My girlfriend passed away and my life is ruined - Please help me!

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Hello Anjali aunty and everybody,


I am a 25 years old male, I had a steady girl friend since 2 years. She passed away all of a sudden which left me devastated. After she has passed away my life has become a sexual void. We both loved each other more than anything else.


Now the problem is, I do feel the sex urge too often which I am not able to control at times. This is hampering my every other daily activity, the only thing that I do is to masturbate very often and satisfy myself. I don't know how long I can carry on with this.


I have some girls who want to have a sexual relationship with me. But at the same time, I can't think of myself in any kind of relationship with some one else. So, I came to the point that I want to remove all my sexual urge through medication.


I wanted to know if someone has any idea how to accomplish this. I don't care about the side effects of doing this since I don't have any more expectations with my life. All I want is to love her completely with my soul until eternity.The people with the kind of answers "Come on man. Life moves on. Enjoy your sexual life…" and the same kind, pls dont reply since I have come to this decision after thinking a lot onto it.


Please help me out with some helpful answers.


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AskAnjali: 10 foods for harder Erection

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There are hundreds of guys asking me on AskAnjali.com how to get a better erection? so I decided to write this post. The foods which I have mentioned have been scientifically proved to give you a better erection.





1. Coffee




The caffeine kick from a cup of Java boosts your metabolism, gets your blood pumping and could also enhance endurance by releasing fat stores, giving you the energy to last all night.







2. Oysters




Yes, there is a reason for their sexy reputation. Oysters are rich in the mineral zinc and vitamin B6, both of which are vital for testosterone, without which you'd have the sex drive of a dead slug. If the thought of grey shellfish gloop sliding down your throat makes you gag, boost your testosterone with nuts and seeds instead.


3. Chillies






Spice up your love life with chillies. When your face flushes after eating a curry, that's the blood vessels expanding thanks to the effect of the chillies. And it's not just the blood vessels in your face that get the boost. Biologically speaking a hard-on is simple hydraulics more liquid (blood) being forced into little tubes (blood vessels) in your penis.



4. Bananas


Hard men have healthy hearts, so eat bananas for potassium, which is great for your heart and circulation. Getting enough potassium helps keep your sodium levels under control, stopping your blood pressure from hitting the roof and reducing your risk of heart problems . . . . . .

5. Salmon


6. Pork


7. Cherries


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AskAnjali: Does my frequency of masturbation cause any future problems?

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Hello Anjali aunty and others,


I saw in many places that masturbating more than 3-4 times in a week is not so healthy. I wanted to know whether this is a thumb rule or is there any exception. I am at the age of 28 years and I remain excited throughout the day.  I am masturbating almost 4 to 5 times a day regularly for years. I have a very good health and I do not suffer from any problem. Recently I tried a lot to reduce the frequency of my masturbation after reading all your posts.


Now I do it 3 times or 4 at max, in a day. When I get up in the morning, my rod is iron hard and I get no choice but to masturbate and relax. In the afternoon, if I am staying at home I must do once more else I just cant concentrate on anything else.And at night before going to bed, I have to do it again otherwise I just cant sleep. These are bare minimum for me.


In between I get hard many a times but I try to control myself. Just watching an item number on TV or watching the next door girl washing her under-garments make me so much excited that I do not even use underwear while at home, I use lungi or pajama which gives me some space to accomodate my erection without displaying much to the members of my house.


Guys I want to know if this is normal or I must control myself even further to reduce the chance of any damage to my health in future. I never had any problem in last 10 or 12 years with this frequency in fact I used to masturbate more until very recently. But I do not want to take any chance with my life. And I hope you can understand that it is not very easy to go to a doctor and ask such a question.


I can only depend on your experience and advice, with full consent that none of us can post a medical opinion here. I understand that and I am still looking forward to your brotherly (and sisterly) advices.


Thank You in advance.


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AskAnjali: I am in Love with a Prostitute - what do I do now?

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Hello Anjali bhabi,



I am Rishabh 20 years old male from Delhi and I am an Engineering aspirant. Few weeks back I had been to a Prostitution center along with my friends, I had no intentions to go there but my friends forced me. We however remained whole night over there, I chose a girl named Jaya who was from Nepal. When I saw her I felt deeply attracted to her and it was my first time being so close with a girl. After seeing her I did not feel like having sex with her, it was just like Love at first sight.

When I asked her how she got into this profession she told me that she was forced to do so, later I only kissed her forehead and hands and did not have sex with her. After coming back to my home from there I realized that I am madly in love with her and can't live without her. I can see her only as my life partner but I am afraid of my parents and society. I know that she loves me too, I am very much confused and not able to concentrate on my studies.


Please help me, I don't know what to do? Is it possible to get her out from the Prostitution racket. I can't live without her, please help Anjali aunty and others.


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AskAnjali: How to increase my wife’s sexual drive?

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Hello Anjali aunty and others,

I am 27 years old male and my wife is 26 years and we both had love marriage. We used to have sex before marriage, but after marriage our sex life is not good. My wife lost interest and urge to have sex and she told me that she had no wish or erection to have sex.


I think depression is the reason for avoiding me, but when we indulge in sex she is good in the act most of the time, but sometimes she just acts like dead and I am very tensed regarding this.  I just want to know if there is any medicine which she can take to increase her sexual drive and libido.


Please help me Anjali aunty and others with valuable replies.


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AskAnjali: Should I fuck my girlfriend or not?


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Hello Anjali aunty and everybody,


I am 23 years old guy from Delhi. From  the past 3 years I am in Love with my girlfriend who is 20 years old. She also loves me a lot and we both want to marry each other but we are from different caste and not sure whether we will get married to each other. Recently we both had been out of city for a trip and there we had oral sex and she satisfied me fully and she was happy regarding it.


We both never want to have further sex before marriage as I love her a lot and never want to spoil her life. We both are planning for another trip in few days and I am confused if I have intercourse with her during the trip and later if I am not able to marry her, I am sure her life will be spoiled because of me.


She has agreed to have sex with me but my inner soul does not allow me to fuck her. Also sometime I think she wants to have sex with me but I am not satisfying her. Please advice me what should I do?


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AskAnjali: My girlfriend is sexually abused by her father - please help me !

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Dear Anjali aunty,


I am Sanju and I am writing this question on behalf of my girlfriend. She told me that her father used to touch her body parts when she was around 10 years old, at that time she was not aware of Sex or Sexual abuse. After that she never liked her father, also she feared his presence and she tried to avoid body contact with her father.


Now my girlfriend is 21 years old and few days before she came to know that her father tried the same thing with her sister also. I told my girlfriend that now you are grown up and your father will not behave with you in the same manner but still her father tries to touch her in bad ways.


Please help me how can I change her father's mind? And is it possible to change him to a good person? Please provide some valuable answers to save my girlfriend from her father.




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AskAnjali: Does loose breasts indicate a girl is not virgin?


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Dear A njali aunty,


This is Ismav back again with one doubt. I and my girlfriend had participated in Sex for 5 times in the past 2 years. Whenever we met I used to squeeze her breasts very hardly and used to suck them for a long time. Later my girlfriend's breasts became very loose and I am not sure whether her vagina is loose or not.


Well my question is that when my girlfriend gets married do you think her husband can make out whether she had sex before or not by just looking at her loose breasts.Also I would like to know is there any way to find whether a girl is a virgin or not by just looking at her breasts and structure.


Please answer my question and clear my doubt.


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AskAnjali: What is your opinion regarding medical check up from Bride/Groom before marriage?

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Hello Anjali aunty and friends,


I am 27 years old male and planning to get arranged marriage within 6 months.  The issue is that in arrange marriage the bride and groom both get acquaintance after marriage only, what I mean to say is both are strangers to each other before wedding. So is it ok if I demand the bride for a complete medical check up (not virginity test) before proceeding talks for marriage.As I am a regular jogger and player of football my health is pretty good and never fallen sick till now and not even had cold or cough that is very usually affects my colleagues/relations.


Of-course I am much cautious about health, so I want to take precautions.  Now my questions is that,


1. Shall I demand the bride for medical certificate before proceeding?


2. Is there any of you married guys who have done this?


3. How many of you are suffering as you got married to a per person who was suffering from diseases?


4. Will it be awkward demanding such things?


I request for your opinions with open heart and I am going to proceed as you guys says.


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