Anal sex is just one of those things: women either love it or hate it. There is very little in between. Most open minded women try it at some point and a fair few of them never dare to do it again despite their boasting to be one of the “lucky ones” who have anal sex. The reason for this avoidance is clear: pain. If there was no pain, there was probably pleasure. Hence, love or hate.
It is true, however, that while you’re trying to “get it right” there are likely to be some painful moments; however, practice makes perfect and it’s the ability to maneuver yourself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.
I decided to let you know on what I think women love and hate about anal sex so that when you enter the situation, you are sufficiently informed and ready to rock her world.
THE ALLURE OF ANAL SEX
For men and women, anal sex is a different, tighter sensation – it’s a little bit naughty and it provides some variety to normal sex. Anal sex has a tinge of taboo attached to it, though this is fast fading away. The taboo status of anal sex makes it an attraction among the adventuresome and timid alike. Once tried, however, anal sex can quickly lose its appeal for women (and some men). Here we will discuss some of the reasons why women love and hate anal sex.
WHY DOES SHE LOVE ANAL SEX? Let’s start with the positives -
Because anal sex feels good:
Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It’s different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before – it’s deep inside, it’s not her clitoris and is not in her vagina but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of her body. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. The back passage transforms itself into a sexual playground. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while you are inside of her, it can take her to another sexual realm. Anal orgasms are possible.
Because anal sex is naughty:
People love when sex seems naughty and anal sex is one of those things you can do completely privately and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your partner – which is part of the fun. It is also often a “first time for everything” type of activity that can also be nice -doing something you’ve never done before.
WHY DOES SHE HATE ANAL SEX? Now for what goes wrong:
Because anal sex hurts:
Anal sex is not easy to master when you haven’t done it before. For a man it may seem straightforward – in, out – but it isn’t as simple. Women hate anal sex primarily because it hurts. It can cause cold sweats, shivers, extreme agony, and a massive chemical release into the blood stream that causes pain. This is highly unpleasant, but she may be endured because A) She wants to like it; and B) She wants you to like it.
If you’re not very careful, if you don’t warm her up properly, if you don’t go slowly enough, you will probably hurt her. This really minimises your chances for trying anal sex again. Do your best every time and you have a chance at having another go.
Because she’s worried about a mess:
Anal sex is obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea that you could penetrate her butt and get into a sticky situation is hugely embarrassing for her before it has even happened, and for this reason she may avoid anal sex altogether. Women spend so much time making themselves look and smell beautiful. Having something to ruin her hard work can be mildly devastating. Worrying about mess can be cleared by using an anal douchebefore engaging in any anal play. Also taking a shower together and make sure her bowels are emptied at least an hour before starting.
WHAT TO DO AND HOW?…
